It seems as though I just don't want to put the effort out to go out and spend time with them. I was never a really soicla person but always enjoyed my life. Now newly married and the wife is alwasy nagging me abotu it.
2006-10-21 10:20:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I have been with my husband over 37 years and he has never been one for going out places or meeting socially with people...it doesn't mean he is miserable or sad... he is happy and comfortable with this....I on the other hand am very extrovert and it has never caused a problem for either of us.
Its all a case of compromise......when you want to do something or go anywhere she should encourage and/or go with you if thats what you want.. it might not be something she wants to do but so what.. she might discover she enjoys it.
On the other hand maybe on the odd occassion you can go with her some place ..that will keep her happy.
My only worry is if I should go before my hubby that he is left all alone.......and I can tell you it really freaks me out...You may think you only need your wife ...but it is good to have a couple of good friends...you never know when their company may be needed.
2006-10-21 10:27:39 · answer #1 · answered by Sunseaandair 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you remind me of my husband a little bit... i supose there is nothing you can do to change the amount of desire you have to go hang out with people, but maybe you could just suck it up and go out with your wife anyway.
or maybe you two can try do new and different activities than what you are used to.
maybe you are in a sense bored with the same ol crew or the typical party/social exchange and need to spice it up a bit by finding something else that you can put your heart into.
just remember to put your wifes feelings in consideration.
if she is happier then you will be to!
good luck.
2006-10-21 10:32:55 · answer #2 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling, except for the married part. Going out and socializing has never been me. It seems of late I haven't even been going to friend's houses. But I'm not worried, neither should you worry
2006-10-21 10:23:04 · answer #3 · answered by variant_456 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the weather is a relevant issue at least for me, and besides it always takes an effort to call people, but on hte other hand you can have better conversations now, you should take it easy and enjoy the good part of it
2006-10-21 10:30:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
same here
I cant be bothered with people myself.
they are not trustworthy and stab you in the back when given the chance.
my wife nags me too and I tell her she can go with friends or by herself and I dont mind.
she thinks she cant have a life without me.
not my fault
I dont hold anyones hand
get off your dead asses wives and go out!
we are just fine at home with a homebrew and a movie.
2006-10-21 10:24:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go out with her friends if she wants to , and remind her she knew what you were about when she married you, hmmm?
2006-10-21 10:26:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me too,must be the age thing.cant be us,theres nothing wrong with us,you know what i mean.lol
2006-10-21 10:22:52 · answer #7 · answered by alleycat46534 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋