that very night or the next day, but you were wed, what would you say or do??
2006-10-21 09:34:57 · 16 answers · asked by S--slick 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'd be very seriously concerned. There would be a lot of talking. And if the answers weren't satisfactory, there'd be an annulment in the works.
Some people don't understand that sex and intimacy are the main differences between being married and being roommates.
2006-10-21 09:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by Michael F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't jump into ending the marriage. I'd fix a romantic dinner and just simply ask her why she is being like that. Now if it has been months since you were married and she still doesn't want to be intimate with no reasonable explanation that is grounds for anulment. Biblically you are not truly married until it has been consumated. She may just be scared you'd be disappointed and unsure of her ability in that area. Give her a chance to explain her fears and try to eleviate them.
2006-10-21 16:46:10 · answer #2 · answered by lil sis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you just married? like 2 or 3 days? or 2 or 3 years? you are treading on thin ice if you 'say anything', expect the ice princess for the next 18 years if you do that! maybe you need to work on your approach, romance will take you a long ways......fill up the tub with bubbles, light some candles, etc.
2006-10-21 16:38:26 · answer #3 · answered by aglady2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get an immediate annulment and go to counseling. This would be a devastating event and could be difficult to overcome on your own.
2006-10-21 16:39:00 · answer #4 · answered by Lynn K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was this a pre arranged marriage or what? Sounds odd to me...time to sit down and talk annulment if you cant work this out...
2006-10-21 17:39:21 · answer #5 · answered by Lynne B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is either she is a virgin, is scared of sex or does not love you or has once been raped and want you to have her. what i would do is to ask her even though i feel hurt. i would ask her in a concerned way and seek counselling with her if she was raped or is scared.if she is a virgin i would give her time to think of losing it with me and moving on with me. if she does not love me i would try to make her love afterall why did she marry me?
and when she finally agrees i would be her perfect teacher.
2006-10-21 17:06:24 · answer #6 · answered by COKO- E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Immediate annulment of the marriage..
2006-10-21 16:36:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would say to myself that I made a mistake. I would be done and out of the marriage.
2006-10-21 16:56:40 · answer #8 · answered by Apple 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get an annulment
2006-10-21 16:36:03 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
She is probably apprehensive about her "wifely" duties. Ask her what is wrong and what you can do to calm her fears. If she not American she may not feel comfortable with you.
2006-10-21 16:37:25 · answer #10 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋