can a sexless marriage survive?. plz, serious commets or answers only.?

Answer 1

If both parties are okay with this, why not? Me and guy rarely ever get physical. We've been together almost 6 years. There is more to a relationship than the physical part. But Like I said, as long as BOTH parties are okay with the situation, you'll live a happy life.

Answer 2

I would have say "Not in the long run". Any strong marriage can withstand the occasional dry spell, so much goes on these days. You know, job, kids ,stress, money , etc., etc. So it is understandable if you go thru times where you cant be very active. But physical connection is a very necessary part of marriage. Everybody has needs. And if there is absolutely no sex at all, then there is definately a reason, and something that must be dealt with.

Answer 3

I think you already know that answer. Sex is not just a "perk" in marriage. It is a joining of your souls. It is how we say I love you without saying words. It is everything and nothing all at once. To not have that in your marriage is like not having air to breath. It sounds like there are underlying issues that need addressing, and in order to do so, you may not be able to on your own. I would HIGHLY recommend seeking professional or religious help so that there is someone that is the mediator. I know that it is hard to admit that there is something wrong with something so personal, but it is a step that needs to be taken in order to fix what is broken. I hope that this helped. Good luck and God bless.

Answer 4

Some women may use toys or have affairs. Is the a "once or twice a month" sexless marriage or a "We have been married for 10 years" sexless marriage? You need to talk to your husband and find out why there is no sex in your marriage. I would hope that having an affair is NOT an option unless it is understood between you and your husband.

Answer 5

Why would you want to be in a sexless marriage? Sex in marriage is one thing that you share together and with no one else! You can talk to your friends and do most every thing else alone or with other people,but sex is the one thing you two share together that no one else can replace! Sure, you can have sex with other people but then what's the point in being married! Why is the marriage sexless?

Answer 6

I was in a sexless marriage for 3 of our 7 years. I couldn't take it anymore, but it didn't bother him. Once I had thoughts of cheating I got a separation. I wasn't going to cheat on him, and I did love him, but I couldn't live without the intimacy. It effected all aspects of our relationship. Toward the end we were living like roommates.

So my answer is no, unless both of you can live without sex. If one of you wants to have sex, that person will eventually get tired of it and either cheat of ask for a divorce.

Answer 7

Yes it can if you two are getting your needs met. Marriage isn't just about sex so if you two can be intimate in other ways then it may work. Be open with each other and make your needs known to each other and since you are married and hopefully in a committed love relationship you will both grow closer.

Answer 8

Well i am sure it can survive as nowadays you don't need a man to make you happy. What is the point of having fun for a few minutes and argue for the rest of the days. Sex is not important in life, although it is part of life and i strongly believe happiness is more important than sex.

Answer 9

Yes I feel that it can. If the couple truely loves one another, they can get intimacy through other things, like cuddling and petting. A truely loving marriage can survive without sex. It really isn't the only thing.

Answer 10

I dont believe it can....depends on your priorities I guess..but I dont believe that two people together would both be 100% happy with a no sex rule..... unless one really isnt into it..and the other is allowed to play away....not ideal but might work for some people...