i think im to needy but we have a kid together his been rally cool about it he didnt want to have sex ne more i couldnt do ne thing for myself i didnt work or drive so now im trying to find myself im working im driving a lil i had no friends ither
2006-10-21 09:11:36 · 8 answers · asked by vahnesse 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i dont think its a mistake, u have done it, give urself time, rome wasnt build in a day it will take time in a few months u will find ur feet, u will make new friend everything will be fine u will see x
2006-10-21 09:16:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do feel for you, it's not easy but you know what, it's within your control and you can make yourself and things get better. Everyone makes mistakes, some big and some more trivial ones, so don't be too harsh on yourself. I would suggest maybe to work out in your head clearly what you really want and the reasons (make sure they are genuine and valid). Don't kid yourself while doing this. Once you know what you want and need, speak to the guy about it. Tell him you're just having a chat with him and would like him to listen to what you have to say as it's important to you. Say to him what you want and how you feel and see if there is anyway you two can compromise and work something out. There is no harm in giving it a go and communicate. If things don't turn out exactly the way you wanted, be reassured that y by thinking and talking it through with the guy will make you feel better. If the problems are still there, don't dwell on it. Time is the best healer and have faith in yourself, things can only get better. Good luck and take care. xx
2006-10-21 09:19:52 · answer #2 · answered by Helloyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are the one who pushed for the breakup, then unfortunately, yes I think you made a big mistake. Not to put you down but you sound like an overweight gamer. Live to play video games and put the world on hold. I could be wrong! I've just seen allot of gamers in my day and your sentence structure and attitude kind of match this characteristic. Um you didn't ask for help getting him back so I will wait and see if that's the next question. Good luck and remember to turn of the games off and enjoy the real world!
2006-10-21 09:32:25 · answer #3 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What normal guy would want to make love to a needy woman ? Needy women are so un-sexy, remember men like the chase, that's human nature.You need to get some self confidence. Best wishes.
2006-10-23 10:24:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go girl! You are becoming more and more of a woman/person for a man to love. If he is the one, he'll recognize what you are doing and applaud. If he sulks, it means he wanted to play MR> BIG and control you through life. You made the right choice.
PS - Next time, get the ring first. It sets everyone on level ground.
2006-10-21 14:34:54 · answer #5 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to go out make friends have a laugh and enjoy life you dont need a partner to enjoy life, then love will come and find you
2006-10-21 09:18:03 · answer #6 · answered by crazycase2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go back and talked over the difference and try ask him why he did not want to sex.
2006-10-21 09:18:01 · answer #7 · answered by olumo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to think positive if not for you but your kid,if your kid see that you cant survive on your own she'll or he'll grow up thinking they need a man/women to get through life.be strong,be indepenant and show your kid that your happy on your own
2006-10-25 07:58:24 · answer #8 · answered by vicki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋