Even though the man is madly in love with her and showers her with affection(money excluded), the lady feels absolutely nothing for him and still goes ahead to marry him. This is also not minding the fact that this lady met someone she was in love with, but refused his marriage proposal and stuck to marry the one she does not love at all instead. Please what made her do that, knowing she wouln't be happy in a loveless marriage? Why do ladies really agree to date or marry men they feel absolute nothing for?
2006-10-21 09:00:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Some women settle for the man she believes cares more about her than the one she is in love with. To me, it seems like a sin to to deny the heart what it wants the most, only to feel secure, but, I don't know what other women have been thru. Maybe it's a security thing, and they need that more than they do true love.
2006-10-21 09:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by pupcake 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st marriage......I was pregnant....not in love
2nd marriage......His mom and dad made me feel guilty for "living in sin"....not in love
3rd marriage......I knew him 3 months and was living a "party party lifestyle".....not in love
Yep married and divorced 3 times by the age of 30!!! I have had two LTR in 7 years. So here I am 37 and single! I have met some one in the last couple of years that I care very much for and who shares same ideals, interests, passion, social views, hobbies etc........I love him very much. For the first time in my life I finally know what its like to be in love. Just to finally have experienced that feeling is wonderful.....UNCONDITIONAL LOVE!! We do not co-habitate,,,we are not socially considered a couple, many in our social group see that we have a very special friendship/bond and are happy for us, to experience a love relationship once in your lifetime is something special just in that!!!
I will never marry again. I would rather just experience love of another human, just for that,,,,PURE LOVE!!!
2006-10-21 09:19:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
$$$, a future that she thinks might be secure.
2006-10-21 09:03:47 · answer #3 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋