Aries doesn't "mix" with anything. Well, all the Aries people I've known so far are very difficult people. Keep away from them :P
2006-10-21 08:46:56
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answered by Earthling 7
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Telling you from personal experience, it's a mix of hell and ecstasy, but I'd advise any Aries to stay as far away from Cancer as possible.
Everything I read about the two together, in retrospect has been true.
It's said that the first spark between a Cancer and Aries is great and it'll be exciting and steamy, but after a while go down hill.
Cancers are very emotional. My boyfriend would just sulk for no reason at all, and be paranoid over nothing. That's what grew so annoying.
I could tell you that Aries are stubborn and sometimes infelxible. he probably hated that in me too! Aries don't think before they speak, and that can be detrimental to a Cancer's feelings.
Good luck with your situation though! Fire signs are often too energetic and brash for go-with-the-flow emotional water signs though!
2006-10-21 11:08:05
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answered by RSJ 3
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Aries and Cancer
The meeting of Mars-ruled Aries, a Fire Sign, and Moon-ruled Cancer, a Water Sign, will be a testing one. There are rewards for persistence, but the road you travel together will ask for a clear acceptance of your differences.
At first, the attraction is intense, but you may come to realize the intensity is based on things you don't understand about one another. Mixing Fire with Water creates a lot of hot steam! The lure of the bedroom is strong, but the rough-and-tumble Ram may soon cause the Crab to withdraw, demanding sensitivity and romance. As demands and the word "sensitivity" are generally wasted on the Ram, the withholding of favours may bring an abrupt ending. You have an onward-and-upward imperative that can clash with those legendary Cancerian moods. Caught up in your own unflagging energies, you may find the Crab's emotional life mysterious, filled as it is with secret thoughts and the need for privacy, customary in a Water Sign. Pity the Ram who knocks at the Crab's door when the "Do Not Disturb" sign is out.
Like Aries, Cancer is a Cardinal Sign, given to strong action when required. But, this doesn't mean your very own Crab will want to be pushed at Ram speed. Cancer worries and weighs things up, not liking to be urged to decision or action. It may have been someone observing an Aries at work who coined the word "premature", while "safety first" is the Cancer motto.
The Ram spends like a sailor, while the Crab holds onto money like the ship's purser. Equally, your independence and occasionally roving eye could set the wheels of jealousy in motion in the possessive Crab.
Aries flourishes amid hubbub, while Cancer prefers the security of domestic life. If the Crab tries too often to dampen the Ram's ardour, the door will be slammed on fast-vanishing Aries heels. However, there will be times when Ram-level noise is off the Crab's agenda. Thus, agreements must be reached about how the home is run. This can also be the saving grace of the relationship. If Ram and Crab have a family, you will not find two more willing protectors. Equally in business, if Ram and Crab understand each other, Ram vigour and Crab caution can build a base for success.
Remember that Cancer is sensitive and easily hurt. Any incursions into tender Cancerian feelings take time to forgive. This match demands mutual respect and clear boundaries. Without them, it will suffer the classic fate of mixing fire and water, a lot of steam with nothing to show but wet cinders.
2006-10-23 18:39:29
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answer #3
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answered by Anonymous
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You really need to do a full chart for the both of you to get a true picture. However, my first instinct is to say that it is probably a very extreme relationship, when it's good, its very good, but if a fight starts, well I would probably yell to everyone to take cover.
You are both go-getters, neither of you are content to lie around on the couch all day. You are both sociable, generous and passionate. Cancers can be very charming and flattering, which goes well with the aries. Cancers need someone who will stand up to them, or else they will walk all over their partner(typical of water signs) and aries will stand up to them..
I do think that after awhile, you will get on each other's nerves, cancers are moody and sulky and aries would have no patience for that. Aries are selfish and very competitive, which would bring out cancers crankiness. Also, aries are quick to anger, and quick to forgive, where cancer tends to brood and wallow in self pity. Every relationship has its challenges, enjoy the good times, and keep a savings account handy to replace all those broken dishes :)
2006-10-21 11:57:19
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answered by spacecat 4
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According to my fav site....
Aries + Cancer
Fire + Water = Steam
If you find yourself attracted to a Cancer and choose to enter into a serious relationship with them, you must continually remind yourself to move slowly and sensitively. Cancer is a far more emotional sign than Aries, as its water element implies.
However, the positive in this combination might be your ability to inspire others. It could well be a boon to shy and reserved Cancers. You can motivate them to take the initiative and explore other possibilities.
Your mission with a Cancer, in terms of romance, will be to be very responsive, because Cancers are extremely receptive and sensual. Both Aries and Cancer are cardinal, movable signs of the zodiac. This indicates flexibility and adjustment and a need for great variety in both of your lifestyles. But always remember that the Cancerian creature is far more retiring and home-loving than you.
Your blistering enthusiasm, which is like a souce of pure energy that is always turned on, will overheat the cool and watery Cancer. Result? A rather steamy affair. Now steam is fine when it comes to matters of physical intimacy. In fact sexually it’s most desirable. But a steamy fog or lack of clarity on an emotional and mental level is a different matter altogether. This is where the difficulty between the two of you lies.
Cancer, like Marg Simpson of The Simpsons, requires an undemanding, stable, nourishing home life. Aries, on the other hand, is more like Homer Simpson — far less willing to settle down. You need variety in love, and Cancer might be a little too staid — perhaps even boring — for you on a long-term basis. But don’t give up — Homer and Marg Simpson seem to keep it together even though Homer is all over the place most of the time!
If Cancer is able and willing to give you the freedom you require, this partnership is quite likely to work. The chances are best if you were born in the last portion of Aries, between 10 April and 19 April. This is because Jupiter is an influencing planet for that period, which means that you will thoughtfully accommodate the domestic needs of Cancers.
Those Cancers born between 22 June and 2 July will be far too sensitive for your Arian power.
The best choice appears to be the Cancers born between 3 July and 13 July, who are partly ruled by Mars, Pluto and Scorpio. You can expect powerful love connections with these individuals. This is because the Scorpio vibration resonates strongly with your sign, as it too is ruled by Aries. You’ll find a tremendous karmic connection with these Cancers.
Those born between 14 July and 22 July are not likely to completely satisfy your need for immediate and spontaneous activity; they are too idealistic for you.
If you are an Aries who doesn’t mind a lot of quiet time in front of a cosy fire, the home-loving Cancers born between 21 June and 3 July are perfect for you.
2006-10-21 08:49:07
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answer #5
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answered by Anonymous
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Romantic Compatibility
Provided by Astrology.com
Aries & Cancer
When Aries and Cancer come together in a love affair, it's a case of opposites attracting. Aries is rash and brash while Cancer is sensitive and emotional. Aries can certainly be emotional -- in a fiery, impetuous way that can completely overwhelm Cancer. Even though Cancer usually likes to take time with relationships, Aries's whirlwind approach can be extremely stimulating. Aries, on the other hand, may find the Cancerian sensitivity appealing; it's a good balance for the typical Aries bluntness. Troubles may arise if Cancer's mood swings or Aries's aggression becomes hurtful. Both Signs must take time to listen to their partner's needs and understand that they're coming from different directions to meet a common goal.
Cancer is the Sign of Home while Aries is the Sign of Self. One great dynamic between these two is that both Signs are extremely protective of those they love. Cancer uses that Crab shell to draw around themselves and their family and mate when trouble is near, while the Ram uses their strength and bravery, like a knight in shining armor. Cancer also provides Aries with a happy domestic life and emotional security. Sometimes they might build an idealized image of their Aries partner or be overly possessive, which can really grate on independent Aries. However, Aries can help by reassuring their Cancer partner that they are loved and cherished. Aries really needs to learn to listen to Cancer: the Crab operates on an instinctive level and their advice can help Aries avoid making silly mistakes caused by that typical Aries lack of planning.
Aries is ruled by the Planet Mars and Cancer is ruled by the emotional Moon. Mars was the God of War, and Aries is a soldier meeting every challenge head-on. Aries's open, passionate nature appeals to Cancer, who often internalizes emotions and feelings. Cancer can have intense, feminine energy and Aries can help them learn to release it. The Moon controls tides of the Earth, quietly affecting all life; similarly, Cancer works behind the scenes (while Aries rushes into battle). Cancer tends to be sentimental and can teach Aries to slow down and appreciate life instead of always rushing on to the next thing.
Aries is a Fire Sign and Cancer is a Water Sign. These two elements can be a great combination if they work together, using both emotion and action to get things done. Cancer can help Aries slow down and learn to be gentle, while Aries teaches Cancer to come out of their shells. But Cancer can be emotionally manipulative -- sometimes there's just too much Water dampening Aries's enthusiasm. Conversely, too much Fire can cause Water to evaporate, leaving Cancer emotionally raw. Aries and Cancer must talk openly and freely to ensure their balance is maintained.
Aries and Cancer are both Cardinal Signs. Both Signs are initiators, but they have to learn to cooperate. On the surface, Aries is the leader, always rushing out to meet a challenge, but Cancer is also indirectly in charge through emotional control and the ability to weigh the situation. Cancer tends to compromise more easily while Aries can be unwilling to yield, so the Crab may have to accept giving in.
What's the best aspect of the Aries-Cancer relationship? Once they realize they're on the same team, the combination of Fire and Water works well together. Aries is out there getting attention and Cancer is quietly supporting the back end. Each partner's ability to provide what the other is lacking makes theirs an equal relationship.
2006-10-21 08:44:51
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answered by blu_raven_13 4
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Hello Aries and Cancer! As Sun Signs go… you and your lover share what's traditionally called a Challenging Element.
This means the two of you may be very different and at cross purposes in your individual styles of thinking, communicating, and relating. The bond of love shared between two lovers is, of course, a given. That bond will naturally help in smoothing out many of the rough spots in your relationship.
However, at times, the two of you may have to be prepared to put out extra effort in working toward truly understanding one another and developing mutual appreciation of the other person's differences.
So..... this website is saying yes, but, you've got to put some work in it. Cancer is a water sign and Aries is a fire sign, which means that they are opposite elements. From my personal experience (I am a Sagitarius, fire and my husband is a Picses, water) and even though we had to put some work in our relationsip (I am very free-sprited and he is very centered, home-body) we get along so well together! And there is never a dull moment when we are together!
Good luck to you!
2006-10-21 08:49:05
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answered by Summer 5
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i'm an Aries woman and locate maximum cancers women people good buddies. particular, we get into fights each and every as quickly as and a whilst, yet i'm an Aries, i'm getting into fights very frequently. the sole subject i will see is an Aries keen to forgive and overlook whilst a maximum cancers continues to be emotional. additionally, an Aries ought to get a tad bit annoyed whilst the main cancers has certainly one of their many temper swings.
2016-12-16 11:34:49
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answered by Anonymous
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If I keep smoking the way I have been , I will end up an Aries WITH Cancer.
2006-10-21 08:38:47
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answered by stymie1970 4
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I am a cancer and my b/f is an aries and when its good its great but we do fight a bit. good luck....
2006-10-22 00:13:31
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answered by dbaywildgirl 1
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