I used to be pretty good friends with this kid who was in two of my classes. I used to have a crush on him and he found out because my friend and this girl announced it in front of him. He acted really cooland still talked to me and still kind of flirted with me(we had a flirty friendship). My friends said he liked me. Well school has been going on for 2 months and we see each other all the time and we don't say hi. I know from how long it's been I can't just go up to him and say hi. How do I restart our friendship?
2006-10-21 08:18:10 · 17 answers · asked by Kailee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You got to take risks... what do you have to lose?
Saying hi will restart the friendship if he responds and if he doesn't then you're at the same stage you're at now...
Give it a try, start off smiling when you see him then say hi on another occasion....then talk to him after...this way you take it in stages.
Good luck.
2006-10-21 08:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion you should just go up to him and say hi. If you want to restart your friendship you can't be afraid to talk to him, if you don't, he will never know you want to be friends again.If you think it is worth being friends again just take the chance and walk up to him and say hi,and tell him everything that is on your mind.Tell him you miss being friends with him.I wish the best of luck to you.
2006-10-21 15:37:13 · answer #2 · answered by Destiny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, you walk up to the bloke , smile say hi and ask him how his been. If he doesn't respond appropriately in a civil manner than he is not worth your friendship. So what do you have to lose, but if you somehow put the screws to him or he thinks you did then that may explain his standoffish and you'll either have to apologize or ask him if there is something wrong. you have to decide if it's worth it.
2006-10-21 15:25:33 · answer #3 · answered by Saladmaster22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go totally out of your way ... but just smile and say hi to him whenever you happen to run into him. Make pleasant conversation, but don't be flirty right away. You have to become reacquainted as friends, and the relationship will progress from there. Just remember to always be someone who is fun to be around and he will want to be around you.
2006-10-21 15:22:54 · answer #4 · answered by xv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, this happens all the time. Go up to him and tell him: "how come you don't say hi anymore?" you'll know if he wants to be friends with ya after he answers the question.
2006-10-21 15:23:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a small note inviting him over to Starbucks for something. Get together and just talk.
2006-10-21 15:19:58 · answer #6 · answered by Robbie trd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say hi. Sometimes in life you have to go ahead and make the first move.
2006-10-21 15:19:55 · answer #7 · answered by dumpsterdd90 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try inviting him for lunch pizza or something and tell him how you really feel and tell him what u think about him and how you would like to start the friendship over again.. good luck
2006-10-21 15:24:20 · answer #8 · answered by ~*~ Stormy Weather~*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta sat hi first. Sometimes for life to be better you need to make the first move.Good luck!â¥
2006-10-21 15:22:19 · answer #9 · answered by xoxo§kailey§ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he passes by ask him how he has been and see what his res ponce is then that will tell you the what a future relationship is going to be good luck
2006-10-21 15:27:51 · answer #10 · answered by whynot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋