My partners is almost 3 months pregnant, I would like to know if we can still have sex. When to stop? Will it hurt my baby?
I find her more attractive right now. =)
2006-10-21 07:53:01 · 17 answers · asked by cutty patty 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I alwasy love it when guys post this question! Of course you can dear. My hubby was the same way but when he realized that NO you cant hurt the baby. (there is no possible way to at all) he was all over me. the best sex we had was when i was pregnant! :) and when the woman orgasims, how the baby reacts, is either it kicks due to the harmones the mothers having rush through or or it actually rocks the baby to sleep. i used to practially jump my hubby at 3 am when the baby wouldnt stop kicking me like crazy! ah... sex is a wonderful thing in pregnancy!
dont be afrad to be with her. actually if you haven't been intimiate with her lately now is the best tiime to start getting back to it buddy,. her belly is goingto start showing and she's going to want to know that you still find her attractive and etc.
good luck!
2006-10-21 07:58:10 · answer #1 · answered by cawfeebeanz 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You sure can!! Every pregnant woman is different. Some have increased libido, some have decreased, so just be attentive and considerate of your partner. As a pregnant woman, sex felt a lot better. Some men are afraid they will hurt the woman or baby, but the baby is safe behind the cervix. Only thing is to not blow air in the vagina, and pay extra attention to cleanliness.
2006-10-21 07:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can have sex right up until labor starts, unless she experiences vaginal bleeding or spotting, experiences pelvic pain during or after intercourse, has an abnormal vaginal discharge, or is in any risk of miscarriage. Intercourse in no way will hurt the developing baby, as long as you are gentle and she is comfortable. Congratulations on the baby-to-be, and for being a comprehensive, caring partner. If in doubt, consult her attending Gynecologist about this issue.
2006-10-21 08:18:49 · answer #3 · answered by la_nena_sabe... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so awesome you find your partner attractive!
Sex should still occur to express your love for each other. You can stop when the Dr. tells you to and No, you can't hurt the baby.
There are educational books on sexual positions during a couple pregnancy.
2006-10-21 08:00:29 · answer #4 · answered by Miriam S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Based on your name and the fact that you said partner, I'm assuming you may be a lesbian?
To answer your question, unless the doctor has said no sex then you can....but (which is why I am considering your orientation) oral sex can be dangerous with pregnant women.
It is ok as long as you don't blow air inside her....that can cause a serious problem and even death.
Orgasms are fine, though she may feel crampy afterward...
2006-10-21 08:05:16 · answer #5 · answered by jm1970 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes unless the Doctor has advised you not too for some reason. You will not hurt the baby. The baby is very well cushioned in amniotic fluid. Have sex as long as it is ok with both partners. and As Long as the Doctor says it's ok.
2006-10-21 07:58:00 · answer #6 · answered by lil_love1982 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but why would you. I left my spouse during each of my pregnancies (2). I just did not want to have stress. I went to stay with my mom, because I just felt more comfortable their. After each child turned 1 year, I moved back home. That gives women a chance to fix their bodies with out the stress of having to deal with sex. She is probably only having sex with you, because she feels like she has to. You need to give her a break.
2006-10-21 08:05:07 · answer #7 · answered by sandra g 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can have sex until the end...unless later the doctor says not. But, in normal pregnancies...it is fine. It will not harm the baby
2006-10-21 07:59:33 · answer #8 · answered by #3ontheway! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can have sex untill her water breaks, or unless the doctor says you can't. It wont hurt the baby, the baby doesn't even feel it.
2006-10-21 07:59:11 · answer #9 · answered by TooYoung4This 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Her doctor is the best person to ask about that. Most of the time you can have sex up until the third trimester. But that is only with her doctors OK.
2006-10-21 07:56:10 · answer #10 · answered by wombat_kitty 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋