shes bi- im bi but havent told anyone. i really like her ALOT . i just dont know how too tell my friends and her that im bi and that i like her ALOT.i would tell them but my other friends dont like the homosexuals. i just dont want them too hate me too like they hate her after she told them she was bi. SO HOW DO I TELL MY FRIENDS AND HER ALL THIS? PLZ HELP!!!!!!
2006-10-21 07:42:15 · 13 answers · asked by Taylor c 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you like her, then go for it. If she's your best friend when what do you have to worry about? She'll understand. As for your other friends, Who give a **** about what they think? If they are going to stop being your friend because of your sexual preferences, then do you really want them as friends anyway? And, if you come clean with your friend maybe she wont feel so alone in all of this. Think about it.
Good Luck! :)
2006-10-21 07:48:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you think that she would freak out when she is Bi too? she is going to happy/accepting of you. and if your other "friends" won't like you anymore after they find out,then they weren't true friends to begin with. Sexual orientation shouldn't make/break a REAL friendship.Just tell your bi friend and let things happen from there...screw the other people that aren't going to like you when they find out. get some new friends and move on.
2006-10-21 08:34:40 · answer #2 · answered by I snap kick xscenex kids 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think she will freak if you tell her, she will understand because she is too. YOu are her friend and sometimes friends make great lovers!!!!! Have you ever had an experience w another girl? Tell her you want her to be your first! She will like that!
2006-10-21 07:46:00 · answer #3 · answered by Hydimyangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there not frinds if they would not be your friend because of this. I would just be honest with the girl you like and tell her how u feel. But the others u dont deserve friends like that.. kick them to the curb and dont tell them
2006-10-21 07:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get into a comfortable conversation. Spill the beans.
2006-10-21 07:43:51 · answer #5 · answered by Leighton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell tem. If they don't accpet you than they aren't you're true friends. Than tell you Bi friend and make-out with her.
2006-10-21 10:34:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be honest with yourself or your not being yourself. They will find out eventually. You will find out who your friends really are. If they like you as you are now, they can still like you, just not like how you choose your sexuality. I have friends like that. I don't choose their sexuality, but I don't dislike them for it. It is not up to me to judge them. I am their friend, period.
2006-10-21 07:45:42 · answer #7 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well...if she's bi and you're bi too...then who cares?
2006-10-21 07:44:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just spit it out. You never know, maybe she feels the same way about you. Don't bite your tongue.
2006-10-21 07:44:46 · answer #9 · answered by Grad_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give her a big kiss, and see what she does
2006-10-21 07:43:57 · answer #10 · answered by esugrad97 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋