You fail to state your age... if you don't have a condition bordering on Asperger Syndrome (autistic spectrum disorder) then in time, you will grow into maturity and learn them for yourself, we all mature at separate levels, some very young (I was born grown up) and some very late... and some, like AS people, as my son and his dad are, will never emotionally mature beyond 16. But they can be extremely advanced intellectually as well.
The fact you recognised your weakness now, and want to work on it, is a sign of maturing in itself... spend more time with older people than yourself... not bitter people, but older wiser people you respect for being calm and understanding, and fair in all their dealings. Seek them out and listen to their stories, their pasts, their understanding of life and themselves, and in the doing, you too will grow much faster:-)
Good luck next time round in interviews, because you are growing, that's for sure;-)
2006-10-21 07:47:04
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answered by Anonymous
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A mature person can still have a childish side which is okay. The key for interview is be prepared. Interviewers are normally looking for a person with integrity and relevant qualities for the position that the interview is for. Take your time to understand the questions and then try to tell them your real experience to support your answer rather than the yes and no is very important. Be clear, firm, and precise. Being yourself also make you more natural during the interview , which will create a rather comfortable atmosphere for everyone. Keeping eye contact at all time and showing your interest in the company will definitely add bonus to your interview. Also remember, being desperate and being keen can be very similar depending on how you present yourself. For example, 'I really want this job' clearly makes you the former, whilst 'I would be grateful if you give me this opportunity' , 'I am sure I am capable of doing this job although there are still things for me to learn' or 'I would like to be part of your company' shows how keen you are.
Go through the job description and highlight the qualities of the candidate they are looking for and think about your strengths and weaknesses for the position. When doing your preparation, think how you can demonstrate your strenghs verbally and how you can give the interviewers confidence in the fact that your weaknesses will not affect your abilities in doing this job.
2006-10-21 11:18:27
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answered by Tan Y 1
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try to imagine yourself as part of the interviewing panel and think about the qualities which impress you.
prepare for the interview ie check out their website,make a mental list of the qualities which make you a strong candidate.
It also helps to have some relevant questions.
If you find all this too beyond your grasp try doing an assertiveness course
2006-10-21 09:52:34
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answered by trish uk 2
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properly to tell you the actuality...neither of you're greater mature than the different. If certainly one of you replaced into greater mature you will not be arguing like this besides. This chick is in basic terms a bully, she'll pay for it sometime. do no longer think of something of her and understand which you're greater efficient than that. EDIT:ok, i think of a few thing had to be performed now i assume. yet nevertheless it is in basic terms a bully. do no longer pay attention to what she has to assert
2016-10-02 12:58:14
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answered by huenke 4
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Make sure you know what you're talking about,think before you answer and find out about the company before you go.
Practice replying to sample question you can get from any recruitment website.
These are the first things i do before an interview.
2006-10-21 07:49:17
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answered by Denny 3
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Hi, invest your money in getting a 16PF5 psychometric test or the MBTA, looks expensive but you could always ask the interviewer what personality they are looking for and see if you fit the bill. A bit of money, unless you can get on a trial, but worth it. I found out that I was dominant but could be led if the best argument could be proven . A bit of money but worth it. There is a website, can't remember it but put 16PF5 or MBTA in the search engine. Good luck x
2006-10-21 07:45:10
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answered by Anonymous
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Think of the most adult person you know and immitate that behavior for the interviewer
2006-10-21 07:53:34
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answered by Buffy Summers 6
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Self control, Self confidence, Self esteem... consideration and leadership
2006-10-21 07:43:03
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answered by Anonymous
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Caring about people, but not trying to impress them with what impresses you.
2006-10-21 07:48:46
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answered by Teaim 6
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Hard to sum it up. Try listing a few specifics.
2006-10-21 07:41:56
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answered by Anonymous
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