I love being with big groups of people and my friend only has a couple of good girlfriends. She is expecting that I plan time, holidays with her, but I'm outgrowing her. How can I or should I explain to her that I need to be with new people? I don't know what to do. We are 16 years old
2006-10-21 07:11:07 · 8 answers · asked by karen 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she needs to figure out that you need your own space. NOT that you don't want to spend time w/her, but that you have outgrown her. dont let her hold you back from hanging out w/other ppl, but also dont completely forget about her.
talk to her! don't be mean, because when a friend says they dont wanna be as close to you, it can hurt. trust me, i've gone through this before. when/if you do tell her how you feel, be gentle, yet still firm.
2006-10-21 07:14:56 · answer #1 · answered by jumanjifaceee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all why are you still communicating w/ your ex-girlfriend. Please don't tell me you believe in that " we can still be friends" crap. Because that never works. If your still talking to your ex like nothing ever happened that only giving her hope that you two will get back together.
Surronding yourself w/ new people is a good thing but make sure those new people are not a bad influence on you or vise versa.
Sit down and talk to her that you are growing as an indivdual and that you need to find out who you are and who you want to become. If she does not understand that and throws a hissy fit, then just tell her that your not the same guy she once knew
Good Luck
2006-10-21 14:18:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be straight up and tell her the truth. She'll probably hate you for a while, but eventually she will find new people to hang out with.
2006-10-21 14:14:03 · answer #3 · answered by number8rocks@prodigy.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how you feel. Let her know you'd rather be around big groups of people.
2006-10-21 14:16:16 · answer #4 · answered by vgleason_102301 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iffff you dont want her in your life anymore tell her
if you think you may want her later just tell her you need time out.
be friends and be nice what ever you do
2006-10-21 14:26:30 · answer #5 · answered by daisymayNY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say we need to see other people for now
2006-10-21 14:15:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you invite her into your new group of friends??
2006-10-21 14:13:43 · answer #7 · answered by just me 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u dont love her then, meet her a nice guy!!
2006-10-21 14:13:13 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Santa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋