i dont know if im pregnant or not. im 18 and i just slept w/ sum1 1 month ago. i dont no whats gonna happen to me! shuld i get an abotion if i am pregnant? plz help!!!!!
2006-10-21 06:40:30 · 8 answers · asked by ccmg1662 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i havent told my parents yet. and i just graduated and am going to college. seriously plz help me!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-21 06:42:08 · update #1
Please go get a pregnancy test. I know that you are scared and I was in the same position as you. You are having a lot of questions and you are scared- I was too. But please whatever you do don't get an abortion. There is so many things that can go wrong- you may not ever be able to have another baby, and you will regret that choice. Please dont make it. If you are worried about what people will think, or your parents, or God. Dont worry. Everyone forgives you. God forgives you. He wants you to make the right choice. Now if you are pregnant- God wouldn't of let you conceive if he didn't want you to get pregnant. There are so many things you can do. I would reccomend you go to your nearest pregnancy crisis center. Be sure to look it up online. There are a lot of them around. Check out this site also- www.gracehouseprc.org I go here, they are wonderful. They keep everything confidential- and they give you a free pregnancy test, and you get free things for you and the baby. You earn points to get cribs, clothes for the baby, diapers and wipes and formula. SO you dont have to worry about all the expense either- THEY HELP A LOT! Well I hope this information is helpful. God Bless you and I wish you the best.
2006-10-21 07:03:05 · answer #1 · answered by lil_soldier_girl_18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, get a home pregnancy test and find out if you are really pregnant. Try first response. It works 5 days before the due date of your periods.
If you are pregnant, then I would recommend telling your parents and consulting a doctor ASAP. Having an abortion or giving up the baby for adoption will then be your decision.
I am not pro abortion but I strongly feel that every child deserves a loving life and a complete family. Your future and your child's future will be definately be impacted if you are not old or mature enough to take responsibility of raising another human being.
2006-10-21 06:50:36 · answer #2 · answered by FirstTime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, just go to planned parenthood and find out if you are really pregnant or not, before you go making plans to abort your child or keep it or whatever..
Killing your child or not is up to you.. You can still go to school with a kid though, & live in an apartment on campus.. I am 20 and I have a have a 2 year old and a newborn.. Single parent.. Going for a bachelors in psychology and criminal justice.. If you are pregnant.. Keep in mind you are the one who took of your pants and made that innocent child.. The fault is not on the baby..
2006-10-21 06:52:19 · answer #3 · answered by Hot Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, obviously the first step would be to get *tested* and see if you really are pregnant.
If you aren't, I would suggest going on the pill if you intend to continue having intercourse. If you are pregnant, your parents will probably find out eventually. Since they will undoubtedly know more about the situation than anyone here would, they would be the ideal people to tell.
Throwing up could mean lots of other things. If you just moved to a different climate or are eating different foods recently, those kinds of things can also cause nausea. It may also be a stomach virus.
2006-10-21 06:51:40 · answer #4 · answered by Terras 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does everyone use abortion as a convenience. No you shouldnt get an abortion. If you are pregnant and already sick then that babies heart is already beating. God I cant imagin how anyone could kill their children. I have 3 boys and Im 17 weeks pregnant with my 4th and I love them sooooo much. Its the greates. Whether your 18 or 30. You had sex and if your pregnant it is now your responsibility. Your parents wont kill you. Just tell them.
2006-10-21 06:44:32 · answer #5 · answered by Blondi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please don't have an abortion if you are pregnant! I got pregnant at 18, and I chose to keep my baby. He is the light of my life, and the reason I push myself everyday. I work hard so I can take care of him by myself, but he's worth every sleepless night, every penny spent, and every emergency bill. LOL! Kids are hard work, but I wouldn't trade a minute of it. Give it a chance at least. Adoption is the best option if you really just aren't wanting to keep the baby. You made the choice to have unprotected sex, and you are now and "adult". Learn to take responsibility for your actions. You can't rectify your mistakes by trying to erase them. That's not how life works. That baby (if you're preggo) is alive, and deserves to stay that way. Take a test, and pray that you're not pregnant so that you can learn from this scare, and wait til when you're ready to have kids to have unprotected sex. Good luck1
2006-10-21 09:02:17 · answer #6 · answered by Caelan's mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not get an abortion! you will always regreat it, i've talked to so many women who wishes they hadnt done it, but wishes that they'd have given birth and then give the child for adotion. if you cant handle the baby do that, and don't have sex again until you can handle a baby.
2006-10-21 07:00:42 · answer #7 · answered by Char 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a doctor and see what the results are. and did you have protected sex(if you had sex, b/c otherwise, you're not preggers!) and no, don't get an abortion YET! tell your parents see what they say and then take it from there.
2006-10-21 06:49:10 · answer #8 · answered by iloveducks_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋