2006-10-21 06:36:04 · 22 answers · asked by chik4jesus 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, why do you want her to talk to you? You just basically stabbed her in the back (even though you did the right thing). Don't even worry about talking to her or being friends with her.
2006-10-21 06:37:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds as though you may have been trying to do the right thing by telling the boyfriend what was going on, but instead you managed to do the opposite. Sometimes it best to stay out of these matters because in the end the person everybody is mad at is you. Cheaters always get caught even if it isn't right away. If this girl was your friend then I don't think she will want to talk to you for a long time. The best thing to do is take this as a learning experience and know what to do for next time.
2006-10-21 13:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by Sieanna K 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If her being angry with you is causing problems, remember first that you were right - she is the cheater. People that cheat are dishonest, and have no class, and no integrity - not a great way to live life, is it?
But, if you want to smooth things over so you can talk at times, tell her you are sorry and then move on.
2006-10-21 13:44:59 · answer #3 · answered by chris 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh, this is such a touchy subject. it really asks someone to balance doing right and wrong... honestly i've been in this situation a million times - what i do is when i find out about the situation i go to the cheater first and let them know that i found out and that i think it's wrong. i then talk to them about it and how wrong it is. i let them know if they don't tell the person they've been cheating on about i might have to for my own sanity. believe me, i've been cheated on and it's better to have the person that cheated on you tell you then someone else. even so i still think you did the right thing, and maybe you should try to talk to her and explain your feelings about cheating and tell her that it wasn't your place to tell her bf but at the same time you couldn't not tell him because that would have weighed on you conscience...remember - people make mistakes, just because she cheated, don't ignore her either...it's better not to burn bridges because later on in life - you never know who you're going to need to turn to.
2006-10-21 13:43:56 · answer #4 · answered by Karen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont do anything. keep away. not ina mean way just try to avoid. it was her fault that she cheated on her bf. and it kinds is ur fault 2 but the best thing to do right now is to keep way. dont tell anyone else about what she did or it will spread!!
2006-10-21 13:38:51 · answer #5 · answered by rwkhfkjrenf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why did you tell her boyfriend for?do you have asecret cruse on him!That really wasn,t any of your bussiness,I would not do that to my man,But if i had and you RATTED me out,i,ld never talk to your again,you can not be trusted as a friend and your two face by the sounds of it!i,m not trying to be mean,just honest!Sorry!Hollywoodp.s.Sometimes the Truth hurts!{Just like you did to your male friend,By ratting he,s girl Out!Now You have to live with yourself,I think you need to learn to mind your own bussiness!
2006-10-21 13:42:59 · answer #6 · answered by hollywood 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What did you expect, congratulations? "Thank you for telling my bf that I was cheating on him, now can we be best friends?"
Come on now, you know why she isn't speaking to you!! Sometimes it is best to keep things to our selves, and keep out of other peoples stuff.
2006-10-21 13:41:16 · answer #7 · answered by Just me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget about it. You should never put your nose where it doens't belong. I've leared it from experince. YOu never know what happens on the inside. Some people just glance at a book cover and think they no what's happening on the inside. Never ever be nosey again
2006-10-21 13:39:39 · answer #8 · answered by Skittles-Dark Edition 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why do you care that she won't talk to you? She's a s l u t. You don't want to hang out with those kinds of girls. You are better than that.
2006-10-21 13:38:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Too late now, you should have minded your own business from the beginning.
2006-10-21 13:38:44 · answer #10 · answered by flashpro 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋