well we broke up and like he does want to be with me anymore but he still want to spend time with and we been together for like a year and four months and now we have been broken up for like a week almost and he still wants to spend time with me but i dont i want to ask him if he doesnt want tobe with me why does he still want to spend time with i love him so much we even have a kid together but dont know how to talk to him
2006-10-21 06:28:19 · 8 answers · asked by Shina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ya, it'll be awkward for a while. I do have some news for you that you may not like; there's a very good chance that he wants to spend time with you but does not want to get back together with you. Sure, there's a chance of you two getting back together, but you two 'did' break up for a reason. The thing is that even though he no longer wants a romantic/sexual relationship with you, it doesn't mean he doesn't still care about you. His feelings for you may have changed, but he didn't just up and stop giving a $hit about how you are and still may even enjoy your company. Just not the kind of company you two are used to having. If this is too hard on you and you're still desperately in love with him, I suggest you try and put some distance between you and him. Don't be mean, just keep things civil and try hard to pursue social activities that don't involve him.
2006-10-21 06:32:47 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is spending time with you because he wants to have his cake and eat it too. See you all are broken up, he does not want the full responsibility of a relationship, but he wants to have the benifit that comes with it. My advice to you is don't sell yourself short. Think about it are you wasting your time? What if something better comes along?
2006-10-21 06:52:20 · answer #2 · answered by RedDreads 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is very strange, but if you don't try to made this clear who can find answer on it.Maybe if he spend more time with the kid , finely he can makes his mind. Hie still searching for the right girl but can't find it. You have to be very fragile what you say, don't get angry or make him angry.
2006-10-21 06:37:39 · answer #3 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are broken up, you need to have very limited contact with him. If you continue to be around him,you will not be able to heal and move on with your life. If you want to try to make it work, just tell him honestly how you feel.
2006-10-21 06:31:38 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
let him know how much you love him, tell him that you want to spend the rest of your life with him
2006-10-21 06:39:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe it not you he wants to spend time with maybe its your kid or maybe he doesnt want your kid to know yu guys arent together or maybe he just doesnt know what he wants. you know men there worse than woman.
2006-10-21 06:31:49 · answer #6 · answered by evilella 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What do you want? Just to be a little something on the side? You decide.
2006-10-21 06:41:50 · answer #7 · answered by RockwallCat 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He may be trying to keep him some booty on the line. Dont fall for it .
2006-10-21 06:30:03 · answer #8 · answered by chicken farmer 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋