2006-10-21 06:26:50 · 26 answers · asked by green_womble 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
In response to your question about whether all gay men have anal intercourse is a very legitimate question and curiousity. I admire you for asking a question many straight people have wondered but wouldn't ever have dared ask. There have been studies done on this topic and the results just confirmed what most gay men already knew and that is that most gay men do engage in anal intercourse. For some it is recreational sex as it is for many heterosexuals. Then for many gay men, such as myself, I have anal intercourse as a means of expressing love. Intercouse for both gays and straights intercourse is the greatest physical expression and demonstration of love. Most gay couples use it because of the same emotional needs that we all share, and that is for the deepest form of emotional and physical intimacy possible. In response to your question about why then don't gay men just have sex with woman I believe you were implying, is because they and myself are gay. Because of that simple fact therefore our sexual attraction is toward men. For most gay men the thought of having sex with a woman can feel as equally distasteful or unnatural feeling as it would for a straight man with another man. To many straight men it is difficult to imagine that having anal intercourse wouldn't be extremely painful. It can be if the giver is not patient or is plainly too large as some straight men are too large for some woman to be enjoyable. Patience is really the key word in whether it will be an enjoyable experience or not. When it is enjoyable it is extremely enjoyable and satisfying and that is partly do to the fact that men have a prostrate gland and when massaged gently can cause intense orgasms. Intercourse was natures way of encouraging pair bonding. I want to make clear that I make no judgments about anyone that has sex recreationally if done safely but as a general practice I believe they would be missing out on something quite wonderful and it would also raise a red flag for me in regards to their ability to have emotional intimacy which I do believe is a very big issue within the gay culture. I do write about this issue and many other aspects of gay culture in my new book entitled; "why gay men do what they do", an inside look at gay culture. www.aaronjasonsilver.com. I hope I answered your question satisfactorily, if not you may e-mail me at; asilver@wmis.net Thanks again, Aaron Jason Silver
2006-10-23 12:08:44 · answer #1 · answered by traveler1955 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Only when you are in a relationship, yet most gay men do have sexual encounters with one another. much the same as hetrosexual females. You can have a realtionship with the same sex. A women knows how a women behaves and thinks and the same goes for guys. We have a better understanding of men than women do. Agree
2006-10-25 06:53:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I have a slot then why do I not c*m silver dollars?
Man....that sure would be great....I am tired of pinching pennies!!!
Maybe I need a to get with a gay man and see if he can help me hit the jackpot!
2006-10-23 00:17:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will answer your question pretending you are not completely stupid. No, all gay men do not have anal intercourse with each other. If a female's vagina were the correct 'slot' for a homosexual man then we would not be homosexual...duh...
2006-10-21 13:36:18 · answer #4 · answered by Spyder 5 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Are you goofy? If you could only know how stupid your question is, correct slot? Like women are there for your disposal. Please!! Not everyone wants to be with the opposite sex, there are women that love other women and there are men that love other men, get with the program!!!! Still cannot get over "correct slot", what a jerkoff.
2006-10-21 13:59:33 · answer #5 · answered by spiritcavegrl 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
well not all gay men have anal intercourse, they have other forms of sex, and a lot of straight people 'uses' the female anal chanel for sexual pleasures as well, as it is more 'narrow' than the other passage... if u see my point dearest..., but i guess u have never had proper sex... bless..
2006-10-22 10:11:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HA HA this guy is amazing you made my day dude! you have an amazin thought process. LOL. check it out. This guy must be an ugly dude with acne all over his face and has never been with a woman cuz of low self-esteem
2006-10-21 14:02:40 · answer #7 · answered by Namaste 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I really think you need tpo really grow up and stop asking stupid and lame questions!! it's obvious you know nothing about the the human bodies and the proper nams for body parts!!! GROW UP!! and learn give some damn respect to otheres! you are a disgrase to all human kind!!
2006-10-21 15:33:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Because we want to do differently than polite society.
if we do it with a woman she can get pregnant
and that means a family, and all the responsabilites that come with it.
If i stay gay, i will never have kids, and i can "play" for ever.
You see as a gay man, i am very selfish, and i put myself first, second and third.
2006-10-21 15:51:18 · answer #9 · answered by oldstalecheeks 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
i am tempted to say oooooh shut up, but i won't.
not all gay men have anal intercourse but to be quite honest it's nobody's business if they do. it's their bodies, and it's up to them which slot they stick their pennies in.
2006-10-21 15:11:09 · answer #10 · answered by swot 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋