i have been dating this very sweet guy for a month he really likes me ... he went on holiday to Dubai for a month, he left 3 days ago and since then he hasn't contact me yet, when he lft he promised to text me everyday, people please keep in mind that he went on holiday to see his muslim family and tell them about me, white
What do u think is the problem here, why he hasn't called yet..
2006-10-21 06:11:14 · 14 answers · asked by Antonella C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
maybe hes just been really busy being with his family. and i'm not trying to be optimistic or anything but maybe he really is busy.
2006-10-21 06:14:02 · answer #1 · answered by ~Azorian Chick~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, i find it strange because u can text from everywhere! Have you tried to text him? If no, text him and tell him u r worried! If he doesnt reply....then he has to give you a damn good reason why he didnt text! Nevertheless, he could have lost his cell or even someone stole it! However, he could contact you via e-mail! As I said, it could be everything and nothing! If he keeps on not contacting you for his whole stay then please forget him! If someone cares about you then they will get in contact with you, no matter what! If you call him and he tells you an explanation but he still remains not contacting you....please move on! I really really hope for you that everything turns positive! Good luck!
2006-10-21 06:16:54 · answer #2 · answered by bumblebee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a Muslim and I know how families react to stuff like that and I'm sorry to tell you...not so well. Either there's a problem with the issue or he just can't find the time or be alone so he can text you without being bugged by someone or something. Just give it time, but be warned, chances that they'll be happy to hear that is slim to none.
2006-10-21 06:15:14 · answer #3 · answered by Triathlete88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that it could be a couple of things since I do not know the total length of time he has been gone because he could have been honest in his conviction of what he told you however you must remember Muslims do have customs that they follow and his family may have voiced or reminded him of there customs or he was not as deep with his feelings as you thought! but if its been a month or so I would let that go because he could write or call at least once.
2006-10-21 06:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by Ethel T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be that he does not want to let his family know about you. Remember, he comes from a different culture. You are probably not Muslim, his family may want him to be involved with only a Muslim as a potential future spouse. You need to ask him about this. By the way, have you tried to contact him - by text or email or phone or whatever? If not, then I wonder what he is thinking about YOUR lack of communication?
2006-10-21 06:17:20 · answer #5 · answered by DadOnline 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all think positive. He has'nt forgot about you and he won't. Maybe, his cell phone is dead and he does'nt want to call long distance so he'll probably wait another day or two and get a new charger or a calling card and call you. Im sure that his family will like you. Remember just think positive.
2006-10-21 06:17:20 · answer #6 · answered by keep'n' it real 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably doesn't have a good connection to reach you, or you
can try calling him. You have to keep in mind that our time-zones a lot different from the other side of the country.
He's probably having fun with his family and friends.
2006-10-21 06:15:50 · answer #7 · answered by Sabine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it comes to problems like these you really have to consider all possibilities. If he promised you maybe he's just caught up in being with his family. If your really that worried then maybe it's time that you made contact with him.
2006-10-21 06:43:31 · answer #8 · answered by Starr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably trying to settle down.
Possible poor network reception over his area.
Hey. Always look on the bright side of Life :)
2006-10-21 06:19:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all men suck! maybe he is busy with his family! dont let him know tht it is bothering u! say u went out with ur friend and didnt even notice he hasnt calld! and u shouldnt trust guys it will bite u in the ***! im sure he is prolly busy with his family i mean i would be too if i havent seem them ina while
2006-10-21 06:14:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋