I cant decide whether to get back with my ex or stay with my new guy. I have never been in love like i am with my ex i cant stop thinking about him. My new guy is in love with me but my feelings are not the same.My ex is not the best thing for me .I love him still. I cant pick who to be with.I almost want to have them both.What do you think?
2006-10-21 06:07:17 · 7 answers · asked by sue b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your statement of your ex not being the best thing for you is a warning.
Secondly, reevaluate the reason he is now you ex.
You need to remember why he is not the best thing for you.
You need to look around and not be in a hurry as you are divorced from one, and you do not love the other.
Bottom line is, neither one is right for you. . .Ground control to Sue. . . hello, anyone there? :>)
Continue to look around, the saying is, third time is charm or something like that.
In all honesty, Toto should get best answer on this one. Got it said in a few words.
Darryl S.
2006-10-21 06:25:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We always want the one thats not good for us, You first need to think of what you are looking for. If you looking for something serious then you need to stay with the one that loves you then later on you'll appreciate him; the ex isn't going to take you serious at all. He knows how much you love him and would take an advantage of it. That don't exactly mean you can't kick it wit him. Who knows you may learn to appreciate the one who loves you if you start to date him again, you've already realize that you deserve better now, get him out your system then do better. Whatever you do with the one who loves you more you can only wear n tear ( **** up a little) don't wear it out ( **** up alot)! so kick it with yo ex trust me he'll remind you of why he's an ex; but you have to burn yourself so that you'll learn not to play with fire. Keep your new guy in your life.
2006-10-21 06:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by "The Dark Angel" 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tend to think they are x's for a reason, if it didn't work the first time, its not going to work the 2nd or the 3rd. U know its not the best for you then y waste your precious time and put urself in a bad situation. LIFE IS SHORT get out n have some FUN!!
2006-10-21 06:20:01 · answer #3 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lady you are ruining two lives one is yours and the other is your new boyfriend. how can you have a relationship when you are mentally not over from your past one.
better resolve your problems before going with the new guy. you are confused and it will be best if you talk about this with you new guy.you cant be on two boats at the same time for long.
2006-10-21 06:36:26 · answer #4 · answered by bhopaliguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
until you can get over your ex i wouldnt date someone else that means your not ready the other guy if he cares will wait his turn if not owell
2006-10-21 06:10:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is bad if you exchange bad for not good. Find somebody better then both of them.
2006-10-21 06:18:12 · answer #6 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TAKE BOTH NOTHING LIKE A 3SUM
2006-10-21 06:11:40 · answer #7 · answered by beergr8 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋