and He'll be staying in the guest bedroom. Well he's just a step brother to her real cousin. I've heard throught the family that they have been involved in the past should I be worried
2006-10-21 05:55:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah. I think you should wear a chastity belt to avoid being sore the next morning. He might want to practice with you to perfect his lovemaking with your wife...
2006-10-21 06:19:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, be worried. If they do actually have a past, then that past may come back to both of them once he is living there. If not, then make sure they are never alone together. Keep a watchful eye!
2006-10-21 13:09:46 · answer #2 · answered by lifescircle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that really does suck. Well, if you guys have good communication, talk to her about it, tell her how its making you feel and see what she comes back with. If not, then just decide whether you want to live like that and if not, tell her no. I dont envy you broham... Maybe you can find an old girlfriend, call her a 2nd cousin and see if she wants to live with you also... good luck!
2006-10-21 13:16:11 · answer #3 · answered by capt don 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be wary and want to know from her why she did not tell you this. The information should have come from her long ago. It is obvious she does not consider him any kind of relative or there would not have been any past involvement with him. If it was me I would want other arrangements to be made.
2006-10-21 13:08:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i guess i would keep a eye open since u said u heard it threw family and she didn't tell u maybe u should should ask her .yaw r married now and she should of told u already if the guy is moving in..i don't think i would go for it but this is just me tho...
2006-10-21 13:01:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The correct answer is no.. not until she gives you reason to worry.
The human response is yes I would worry... they have a history together and they aren't really cousins.
This is your home... if there isn't a good reason for him being there I would put my foot down and say no. But find a sensitive way to do it.
2006-10-21 13:03:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be very worried !!
My prediction: Your wife & this "cousin" will be carnally involved before the first week is over,
2006-10-21 13:26:27 · answer #7 · answered by Pat R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better to find out the facts first. You don't want to live constant suspicion. But be sure to consider her feelings in the process.
2006-10-21 13:16:44 · answer #8 · answered by pmarrufo7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she give you cause to worry about her with other people? Do you doubt her commitment to the marriage? Perhaps you should tell her that you feel worried about this. If you can't talk to her, then your marriage likely has other problems. So if you cannot talk to her try talking to a clergyman/minister in your community.
2006-10-21 13:00:51 · answer #9 · answered by DadOnline 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you ask her and put your fears to rest?
2006-10-21 12:58:06 · answer #10 · answered by Pildi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋