WE HAVE BEEN FRIENDS FOR 18 MONTHS, WE HAVE SEX GO OUT TO EAT, HE LIKES MY KIDS AND I LIKE HIS LITTLE BOY, WE SPEND AS MUCH TIME TOGETHER AS POSSIBLE,WE ARE ALWAYS ON THE PHONE LIKE LITTLE KIDS . BUT WE HAVE NEVER SAT DOWN AND SAID WHAT WE REALLY WANT FROM EACH OTHER. I THINK THAT HE IS SCARED AND I AM TOO. I DON'T WANT TO GET HURT AGAIN!!! BUT I WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM , WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2006-10-21 05:48:08 · 11 answers · asked by lesa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He knows already. Don't tell him. It is always better to leave a veil of mystery, and let him be the one asking himself how much you like him. Let him do the courtship. Men are hunters, when they take the lead they even buy rings and get on their knees. Don't show to much neediness.
2006-10-21 05:49:40 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it sounds like the two of you have become comfortable with each other, and that's okay. You need to know if he loves you or is he merely going through the motions? Get him alone and ask him how he really feels. Best wishes.
2006-10-21 12:55:41 · answer #2 · answered by tuscany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well obviously someone has to make the first move, i think that you should gradually one step at a time try to talk about what you want, little by little. that will be easier on both of you. and it wont feel like a lot of pressure.
2006-10-21 12:51:29 · answer #3 · answered by pinkpockadotz333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's definatly a thinkin question...I think you should just tell him. The truth never hurt any1. But I heard about some woman who killed herself because she like this guy waay too much and didn't tell him about it...and he went off and got married...good luck!!
2006-10-21 12:52:41 · answer #4 · answered by J.D. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let things happen naturally -- don't try to force it. It sounds like you guys are already having a relationship, so you're well on your way. Don't rush.
2006-10-21 12:51:29 · answer #5 · answered by dorifto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's getting what he wants. Don't be clingy, just let the relationship happen, or not.
2006-10-21 12:51:09 · answer #6 · answered by martin h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him . what s the big deal if u already so close ?
2006-10-21 12:50:40 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and tell him what you want, sounds like he wants you also concidering ya'll are always together
2006-10-21 12:50:13 · answer #8 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it depends on how u'r gonna talk to him...
2006-10-21 12:50:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think its time u should talk to him abt ur both r`ship....
fdirst find out wat exaclty hw think of u .........i mean thru a mutual freind or something like that......
then tell him out frankly wat u think of him.....
2006-10-21 12:51:48 · answer #10 · answered by oooh_la_la 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋