she hides the fact that she is incontact with him meeting him for who knows what
2006-10-21 05:39:15 · 11 answers · asked by onegreatbaker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Confront her. Just ask her straight up what she's doing. Don't ask in an accusing voice, though, cause you don't want to make her mad at you and start a fight over it. Be casual.
2006-10-21 05:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is really unfair that people are expected to not hang with their exes.... true they broke up for one reason or the other, but that doesn't change the fact that they had a relationship... it may need to be re-defined, but it is unfair that the relationship would have to completely end to successfully move on with someone else. everyone needs to relax.
however, i do agree that the meeting up with him secretly thing is a problem. i think that it wouldn't have to be a secret if there wasn't pressure on her to stop the relationship. sounds like there needs to be more trust. when you actually catch her doing something wrong or innapropriate on their lunch dates or time together, then you have the right to say something or do something about it. (and the truth WILL come out, it always does.) until then, i there needs to be some respect for her life and choices and the fact that she still considers her ex to be a friend.
2006-10-21 05:45:42 · answer #2 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that she's hiding an ongoing relationship, whether it be innocent or not (by her standards of course) is wrong. If it truly is innocent there would be no reason to hide it. Careful not to get confused about what is innocent. Even if they aren't doing anything, if they are thinking about it, it's still cheating.
2006-10-21 06:03:22 · answer #3 · answered by kari w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see ya later bye shes playing head games because she is not sure in what she wants. So she will keep it all going until one of you gets enough of it. GOOD BYE. I have a friend who is going through the same and being her friend and her ex boyfriends friend and her present boyfriend. Its pathetic . Again see ya. Good luck
2006-10-21 09:38:46 · answer #4 · answered by keri0827 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person like that is selfish and only loves them self.
2006-10-21 07:00:24 · answer #5 · answered by RedDreads 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if its innocent, she is hiding it from you. Can you trust someone who hides things from you?
2006-10-21 06:10:38 · answer #6 · answered by Morley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really do need to confront her, if shes still in contact with him it means that she still has tons of feelings for him and she cant pursue anything with you if she has feelings for another, ask her to stop and if she dosent you need to make sure she realizes that she may loose you if she dosent
2006-10-21 05:44:40 · answer #7 · answered by tiffany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they could just be friends and aint told you because she dont want to hurt your feeling, but i wouldnt be happy with my b/f doing that so maybe you should tell her you know she goes to see him and say how you feel about it.
2006-10-21 05:42:00 · answer #8 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don't think i would put too much trust into her then , if she is already doing the sneak thing.
2006-10-21 05:41:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they will realize their mistakes sumday, if they would??
2006-10-21 05:42:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋