having relations with your husband, do you think of all kinds of things in your head? I don't mean about other men, I mean about things that you have to do, work, kids etc. etc. at the same time? Like your mind never stops?
2006-10-21 05:38:55 · 15 answers · asked by clueless clara 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
yuup
i also think about the girls in Hustler
2006-10-23 06:23:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have done this too but I try hard to get into it and think about the feeling.What also has helped is talking to my husband and asking him to say endearing things or how he is feeling etc. when you are making love so that you have to respond to him by listening and talking back and making the "act" more than just a physical thing.
2006-10-21 12:52:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never been married but when being with a man I normally try to stay in the moment. Of course if your not in the mood or don't really feel into it then I can understand why you would be thinking other things.
2006-10-21 12:48:36 · answer #3 · answered by Gypsy Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This explains a lot!
Usually my wife and I have a great relationship in that department,, but occasionally,, she seems a little distracted, I have to work twice as hard to really get things going.
Not that I am complaining,, sometimes that is half the fun.
2006-10-21 12:48:17 · answer #4 · answered by landerscott 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, the passion we still have carries me away from all that.
This is my opinion, or you are a person that worries too much, and therefore your mind is overwhelmed by otherthoughts, or
it might be a red flag , what I mean is ,maybe the passion you once had in your relationship is not there anymore.
2006-10-21 12:46:46 · answer #5 · answered by ateo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes of course we have a much more hectic day and job than any man unless he does what we do take care of the kids, house, laundry, practices, jobs, shopping, bills its hard at times to really get into the situation at hand when you have so much more going on its hard to leave everything at the bedroom door at night.....lol
2006-10-21 12:54:40 · answer #6 · answered by att_i_tude2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop doing that!!!! The experience will be much more pleasurable for you if you concentrate on how it feels. do not think of anything else but the right now during sex.
2006-10-21 12:43:22 · answer #7 · answered by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a fairly normal thing, as women are able to process several trains of thought at once.
2006-10-21 12:42:04 · answer #8 · answered by Jenyfer C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I'm with my wife I think of my wife, sometimes other women I have feelings for.
I never think of anything else.
2006-10-21 12:40:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am male, but if you are getting those thoughts, it shows that you arent interested in love making.
2006-10-21 12:41:34 · answer #10 · answered by Krishna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like stress or lack of interest.
2006-10-21 12:46:48 · answer #11 · answered by jesse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋