2 years ago my best friend was going out with this guy they went out for 8 monthes then broke up. Now, 2 years later me, my best friend and him started to hang out. She still likes him even though he's completly over her. Now he likes me which is kinda a problem because that depresses her even more. She blames everything on me and get's mad at me every night if i talk to him. he says the cutest things to me, but i need a best friend more than a boyfriend even though now i'm starting to really like him. Should i do what she says and stop talking/ hanging out with him? I feel like i shouldnt have to choose but when she's mad the things she says to me makes me feel guilty. Please help!
2006-10-21 05:37:49 · 5 answers · asked by sam r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would leave the guy. Think about it is he really worth losing your friend. It's just a matter of time before you both move on but when you do you will still have your friend and if you do dump your friend for the guy then when you do break-up you'll have no one to really comfort you.
Good Luck
2006-10-21 05:47:51 · answer #1 · answered by ~Azorian Chick~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't sound like a true friend, so you might want to put some distance between the two of you. I can understand her feeling jealous about it, but she had her chance and it didn't work out. She should support your happiness or get out of the way. You deserve to explore the new relationship without hassle.
2006-10-21 12:41:37 · answer #2 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ummm dude leave the guy, becuz in the end, it wouldnt matter how many guys u have cuz friends are worth more. there are other guys, or more fish in the sea. and wat kinda guy is he tht he breaks up wit som1 and then goes out with her best friend? im a guy too, thats not rite, he mite do the same to u, and he could be just a sweet talker
2006-10-21 12:41:20 · answer #3 · answered by aaarid1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she needs to get over him its been to years and there are more fish in the sea. but you do need a best friend more then a boyfriend. talk to her about it and try to make her understand that he dosent like her like that any more.
2006-10-21 12:41:52 · answer #4 · answered by bah_15 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm Sam as well
2006-10-21 13:07:27 · answer #5 · answered by sexyguyno16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋