Because I know that he has a crush on someone else, but he only says that they are friends.
2006-10-21 05:34:25 · 22 answers · asked by To Remain Anonymous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe he just doesn't want to rush into something else after your relationship. Just because he has a crush on somene else doesn't mean she has the same feelings for him.
2006-10-21 05:37:59 · answer #1 · answered by Me, again 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to know. Either you believe her or you don't. I kind of feel sorry for your girlfriend. She says she saved herself for you because she loves you. Now you are repaying her by doubting her integrity and judging her. If you can't let this go, then your relationship is in trouble. You are being extremely unfair to her, if this was such a big deal you shouldn't have slept with her in the first place.
2016-05-22 07:46:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care? Are you still harboring feelings for him? Maybe he is being mature and taking care of himself. Most people benefit by not jumping into another relationship after one has gone bad. These people may be working at restoring trust levels, confidence, better choices, etc. A person who jumps right into another relationship has not thought about what caused the first one to fail. Maybe that is what he is doing.
2006-10-21 05:38:08 · answer #3 · answered by juncogirl3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is trying to work through the pain of breaking up with you. Maybe he is tired of the dating scene. Maybe he is too busy to date right now. Maybe he hasn't found someone new that he likes well enough to date.
It's not like there's something wrong with him just because he doesn't have a new girl on his arm. Maybe he's mature enough to step back and re-evaluate his life and decide what is best for him. More power to him.
2006-10-21 05:41:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He never got lucky after the breakup even the crush was just that
2006-10-21 05:37:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just really shy about the other girl. Guys are (secretly) insecure, and a lot of times it's hard for them to approach girls, especially if they're intimidated by them. Either that, or he just can't get over you and thinks that no other girl is worth being with because they won't ever be as good for him as you were. Hope I helped!
2006-10-21 05:38:32 · answer #6 · answered by Victoria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you put him through so much **** that he doesn't want to have another girlfriend right now- People don't always have to have a bf or gf- sometimes it's nice just to be on your own for a while.
2006-10-21 05:37:27 · answer #7 · answered by mightymight 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm more concerned about why you care what your ex is doing. Unless you guys are still friends, in which case, he will tell you if something isn't square.
2006-10-21 05:38:44 · answer #8 · answered by o_nepenthe_o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so worried about what he is doing? Maybe he is just enjoying time alone - which oddly enough is what most men say when they break up. "It's not you, it's me. I just need to be alone right now."
Maybe he was serious?
2006-10-21 05:56:10 · answer #9 · answered by chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably he's taking his time to cool off from being committed, living up the single life for a while and date around..
2006-10-21 05:36:29 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋