i knew this guy for about 2 years but we been friends/ girlfriend/ boyfriend, he loses his job every few months and needs help with rent, of course i help him cause he is a wonderful person but it is hard somethimes to tell him no all he really has is me, i'm sure he can handle himself with out me, i really like hanging out with him and he is always to busy looking for a job, but he sits at his brothers house or friends house and can't come see me when i want him to, its always when he wants to i need help to try to figure it out what i should do cut him loose or keep him around for other things
2006-10-21 05:30:08 · 8 answers · asked by christina p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you keep helping him, he will never get up and take care of himself.
I suggest to cut him loose. Are you really that set up in your own life (own house, car, ect.) that you can take care of someone else?
2006-10-21 05:33:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the only time he doesn't mind having you around is when he needs something from you.
If you care about him, you have to let him fall and make his own mistakes. Eventually he'll just have to pick himself up.
2006-10-21 05:33:55 · answer #2 · answered by Patty_08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is using you
2006-10-21 05:33:36 · answer #3 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using you, move on to to friends who will appreciate you!
2006-10-21 05:33:57 · answer #4 · answered by Pildi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's definitely just using you, forget him. Move on.
2006-10-21 05:34:42 · answer #5 · answered by Triathlete88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes a slacker drop him
2006-10-21 05:34:43 · answer #6 · answered by Dustin Alberty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go, sounds like he is just using you.
2006-10-21 05:32:06 · answer #7 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
exactly what warmth is he bringing into your life??
if it's sex, then I think you're both losers.
2006-10-21 06:07:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋