I have siblings that can't take the way I live my life. It's not a sexuality issue, even, it's the fact that I do what I want with my life whilst they're all stuck with half a dozen kids, marriages that are just for show and because I don't have either, I need to be picked on.
I've been asked the most ludicrous questions about my life, from my siblings that are clearly just jealous that they're stuck in their miserable existence, consisting of nappies, drool, sex once a year, school runs and I'm not.
I have all my income to spend on myself, I have a beautiful place, dress expensively, travel when I get a vacation, read a lot, have plenty of sex, do yoga, go swimming and have a great body - - while they are stuck with weight problems, family problems, kid problems, etc.
It's not just a question, see, it's them trying to put me in the same box as them because it's more convenient for them that way. Heaven forbid they should have to think outside their A4 existence.
2006-10-21 05:29:13 · 14 answers · asked by Zig Z 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I see my family typically twice a year, because I love my mother. Every single f**king time I do, the question "Aren't you going to settle down soon and have kids" comes up. Every-f**king-time. And I've answered the same question for 15 years that it won't happen, especially not the "kids" part.
2006-10-21 05:43:26 · update #1
And I have a wonderful partner I'm in love with.
2006-10-21 05:46:46 · update #2
no body cares dude
spend all your income on yourself and your "life partner"
Buy all the clothes you want, have plenty of gay sex
travel everywhere you want
At night when you think about your life you are still jealous of those who are lucky enought to have a wife that loves them and children. So what if they are a pain frequently, they are worth it
2006-10-21 05:35:06 · answer #1 · answered by oldstalecheeks 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
you sound like you are experiencing "the good life" ... no responsibilities but yourself to pleasure and enjoy (and your partner). I think it's great. It takes so much to raise kids (agony, stress, premature aging, white hair, sleepless nights, etc ) esp. when they get to be teens. It depends on your philosophy of life and meaning you derive from life, but if you thin life is not to procreate and let your progeny live on, then forget about kids and focus on your life's riches and successes. I think you are doing what's right and good for your preferences and that is a noble thing. There is no rule that all people must follow society prescription to make a family and all experience what parenthood is like. The only caveat in a life like yours is having plenty of pleasure. just be safe. Best wishes
2006-10-21 13:11:50 · answer #2 · answered by summation 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you! I am a bi-male who loves this lifestyle. I have the best of two worlds. My girl=friends are actually turned on when I tell them I also have sex with guys, and it doesn't seem to bother them at all. Keep happy and don't let anybody tell you to change. Ps. Come visit me!
2006-10-21 13:14:38 · answer #3 · answered by persnicady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some might but only in the most superficial way, The grass always looks greener on the other side of the fence. If that is why they are picking on you for certain, let them. Pettyness and spite are their own "rewards".
2006-10-21 12:40:45 · answer #4 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no....they pick on us both emotionally and sometimes physically because they dont have the understanding or the capability to understand the things that make the GLBT community "different" from them. they are of the firm belief that its their way or no way at all. they seem to lack one fundamental thing in their lives, the ability to see differences in others. if they did, they wouldnt be as narrow minded as they sometimes can be.
2006-10-21 12:55:17 · answer #5 · answered by newmichelle1959 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that it is mostly the sex and that gays have more fun. for lesbians, there is no one to pressure them into having sex because women aren't horny perverts. for men, it is the fact that there is no one to say no to sex and i think that sex is the number one factor for a good happy relashonship. just because we have more sex than them is no reason to make fun of us; they are just jealous.
2006-10-21 12:47:20 · answer #6 · answered by boricua82991 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You appear to have a giant ego. It seems like you are sucessful and you are going to make sure someone knows it and this will blow up in your face. Did you ever think that they are asking you these questions because they really want to know? Stop being so arrogant and please quit putting down your family and friends.
2006-10-21 12:43:04 · answer #7 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why should you worry about that? You sound like your enjoying your life, the heck them.
2006-10-21 12:39:47 · answer #8 · answered by now_by1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may be having fun now, but youre going to have to settle down eventually. theres going to be a time when sex, money, looks, arent going to be important anymore. i think thats what your siblings are trying to tell you.
2006-10-21 12:41:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why are you deceiving yourself? All it takes is a blood clot to cause partial or full paralysis, a car skidding into you to make you a vegetable. You are a pathetic superficial person walking on a knife's edge if you ask me. Don't insult God your creator. You can loose everything in a millisecond.
2006-10-21 12:35:22 · answer #10 · answered by zoomat4580 4 · 1⤊ 4⤋