help me please?

Question

i have this friend and i like him but we always have some problems and i dont like what should i do to stop having problems with him ___________some body please help me

Answer 1

What types of problems are you dealing with? Are you meaning physical abuse or emotional breakdowns?

I'm not sure what you mean by 'problems' but I can say that if YOU don't change yourself then nothing's going to happen. You can try to talk him about the problem all you want and still not alter a single thing to solve the matter. If you can be confdent in yourself in fixing the parts you don't like in the relationship then you can achieve it [even though if you don't get the results you preferred, at least you can have comfort in the fact that you yourself tried to amend it].

For your friend, try acting nicer to him, try to take time in understanding his needs; and I do know that not all the time he's going to sit down with you and listen to your spiel but if you're persistent, then maybe he'll have something click in his brain, telling him that you're still there. Sometimes he just doesn't see you and he'll start kicking the bucket, so just try.

There will be a time when he has to do the same for you, and if he doesn't, there is only one way out, and I don't think there's a way to fix the problem anymore.

But always, what I try to do is stick with that person until the very end, no matter the trouble, the pain, or stress, I would still care and love that person with everything in my ability to do so. And if you can get into that mindset, I would assume then that you'll be seeing a better light than before, if not to change the situation, for yourself.

Answer 2

i had the same problem, i liked this guy, we disagreed on everything and we basicly hated each other. the thing iz we told each other that we like one another and our relationship waz fun...not cuz we got along but b-cuz we didnt, most couples u see constantly agree and never fight but thats what keeps a relationship interesting, the fact that u both have diff. opinions and u never noe whats gonna happen next. i cant tell u what to do but i say "do what u want and say what u feel cuz those who mind dont matter and those who matter dont mind" best of luck!
Sunshine

Answer 3

look at the problem and change it.