2006-10-21 04:46:40 · 26 answers · asked by my_clancy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i have same problem with wife... i want more forplay and more oral , i give bbut rarely recieve... try roleplay games with him if he'll do it ,,i'm working on wife with that,,,,,,good luck
2006-10-21 04:53:44 · answer #1 · answered by Rooster 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Turnabout is fair play. Don't give him any unless he will perform for you. But you might want to ask him why there is no foreplay. If he has performed in the past but isn't now, is there a reason? A hygiene issue? Are the hedges trimmed, so to speak? Make the option more attractive and see if he responds.
2006-10-21 11:52:06 · answer #2 · answered by irish1269 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess if you have tried talking to him about what you need or would like and he still is not listening then you will have to try and show him. Try starting your foreplay BEFORE you get into the bedroom. Walk up behind him and give him a hug or kiss his neck, sit down beside him while watching TV and just stroke his leg...see if he will do the same and don't let him just get up and run off to bed....if he does just stay watching TV lol. It would be best if you could just tell him the things you need. Try telling him "Hon I really need to know that you love me OUTSIDE the bedroom too you know.
Best of luck...I know sometimes us men are a little thick and need to be slapped upside the head before we get it lol
2006-10-21 12:00:29 · answer #3 · answered by oldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you talked about it????you need to be open with him on your disatisfaction, sex is a 2 way street not a one way road...if the 2 of you are both open to discuss this subject, you will have the best foreplay that you are looking for because "it is between the 2 of u" no one is involve and this is sacred and secret..believe me, i have a successful married life because we are both open to discuss this things in bed time...if door is closed to either one of you ...i a sorry, your expectations will not be met.
2006-10-21 12:02:57 · answer #4 · answered by Pray and Believe in Yourself 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and really let him know how you feel -- tell him if he doesn't meet you half way then maybe foreplay shouldn't be an option on your part either -- what is good for the goose is good for the gander or something like that!
2006-10-21 11:57:14 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your job to "train" him like a puppy. It's his job to please you in bed and it should be something he wants to do. Tell him this in a non sexual situation and offer to teach him what you want. Introduce him to an older man who will offer him some tips on lovemaking. Your hubby is immature. If he doesn't respond and continues his selfish behavior, you simply close up shop or smack him with a newspaper! godloveya.
2006-10-21 12:06:52 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't talked to him about this then please do so sex should be a wonderful pleasure for both of you not just one and an endurance contest for the other.If he is not willing to add more to your pleasure, then advise him that you are literally taking matters in to your own hands and get a vibrator, this will do the trick, he may even want to join in.and if not enjoy your self when ever and how ever often you please
2006-10-21 11:57:06 · answer #7 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel.................. be sure he satisfies you first before he even gets a chance for himself. Do you two ever use toys? Sometimes this can be a way to draw your relationship a bit closer. A lot of men like to see a woman please herself, he gets more turned on and you get to be satisfied at the same time and it makes the night a bit more enjoyable. And besides, if he does get done sooner than you would like, you can always finnish up without him........................
2006-10-21 12:03:53 · answer #8 · answered by Help Me Help You 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before things get hot and heavy..tell him you like foreplay done on you,and its easier for you to orgasm if he does,and its not just about him and that you like pleasuring him and he should like pleasuring you too.
2006-10-21 11:51:11 · answer #9 · answered by prettybelle7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him this. Sex is only good if you BOTH get what you want and you sound like you're not. What makes him so special that he can have sex with you but not give you what you're looking for.
2006-10-21 11:52:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give him foreplay until he starts giving you foreplay. It is give and take...and we know they want to take! 69 is great...both can enjoy at the same time!
2006-10-21 11:48:26 · answer #11 · answered by ltlchk_2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋