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she is 22 me and her get along like brother and sister she has always taken care of me and I have always taking care of her I would sacrifice my life for her anything she needs I am there. The other night I was over at her house and she has hot tub is not exactly that but something like that she has it all set up for me lift chair and everything. Well on this night everything the same old you know she's in her bikini and I am right beside her but after like 25 minutes she turns in front of me and takes everything off like I said before she does everything for me when we have a sleep over she helped me get dressed anyway after she did that she grabs my swimsuit and takes off to we did not have sexwe just sat there massage my body she asked me after we were all done if I wanted to do that again my question to you what should I do? And can you give me any tips on what I can do to her to pay her back in the not any sexual stuff please?remember she means everything to me

2006-10-21 04:28:43 · 8 answers · asked by jasonbaureis 1 in Family & Relationships Friends

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She is your girlfriend you said so it is only natural that she is trying to please you. Just because your physically challenged doesn't make you a martry or anything. Perhaps she is wanting to take your relationship to the next level and become active sexually. The only way you can find this out is by communicating with her how you feel about this. I am also disabled and so can relate somewhat to how you are feeling. Sounds to me like you've got yourself a keeper in this lady and that you should be grateful and live life to the fullest. As for paying this young woman back why not order in a pizza and have a nice long talk about your relationship and how grateful you are to have someone like her in your life. Someone who is not judgemental or helping you out of pity, but someone you can rely on and love with all your being. Good luck to you both.

2006-10-21 04:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0 0

I have been trying to read between the lines of your posting, and I have been going round in circles. Do you mean that your disability prevents you from experiencing physical sexual excitement? Or when you say 'she does everything for me' do you mean she masturbates you to give you relief? When she massaged your body, did she bring you to climax, or was it just a massage for comfort?

In any event, even if normal penetration is not possible for you, you are still capable of giving her sexual pleasure and release if that is what both of you want.

If you are not talking about sex, then I would think she gets pleasure from your friendship, and you don't need to do anything in particular to 'pay her back', other than letting her know how much she is appreciated.

2006-10-21 04:49:04 · answer #2 · answered by langdonrjones 4 · 0 0

Sweet....she sounds awesome..maybe she wants something more than to just be friends? Why wouldnt you be interested? Regards paying her back...well give her a massage and talk about the future and what expectations she has... are in interested in her romantically or not? Sounds like a golden opportunity to me...you only live once..disabled or not...love is love. Good luck...

2006-10-21 04:33:56 · answer #3 · answered by Lynne B 4 · 0 0

I am failing to see what the problem is here. Sounds like something I wish a girl would do to me, lol...

2006-10-21 04:32:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You should do whatever feels like the right thing to do. It sounds like you have a great girlfriend.

2006-10-21 04:32:23 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0 0

i imagine the cat is out of the bag. notwithstanding, it is something you've gotten to stay with, do what you (comprehend / imagine) is ideal. Then tell her the way you sense about what handed off that day. also ask her how she feels about it.

2016-12-05 01:55:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

well it sounds tht ur gf is really gud...i feel tht u can get her a ring...coz i find most of the gals...happy at tha core..wen a bf gives a ring....ring in tha sense..a gold or...diamond if u can afford or no need...u urself is tha best ..wht u can give her!!

2006-10-21 04:33:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Sounds like you a lucky guy!. tell her!.

2006-10-21 04:51:55 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0 0

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