I met this girl on the net from a friend of a friend it was about 4 years ago I started talking to her a bit to know more about her but i stopped after 2 years I started talking to her more because i got nearly nobody to talk to, i just had so much fun talking to her I wanted to know more about her so i asked for her pictures and what she sound like i also let her hear my voice yes she wanted to know what i look like as well but i could never show it I just didn't have any confident in myself because i thought i was very ugly, we develop a friendship for 2 years, but the fact that most of things I said were lies about myself like how good I was good at sport like a national champion, i even got somebody singing voice to say that was my voice and she would believed it even the pictures but It started getting harder to lie to her, I only fought with her 2 times I even said sorry once to her first, she had 2 bfs in the past after that I started to have a bit of a feeling her, I alway wanted to meet her face to face but I couldn't still didn't have any confident but also because it was so stupid my parents would never let me out anyway. Soon in the end she had a picture of me and felt kind of pissed at her. I couldn't understand why I said to her never contact me anymore forever and pretend i never exist at all and believe everything that i have said is a lies, I felt a bit better after but i did everything that was possible to never contact or see me again so delete and block her with everybody who knows her so goodbye was the only way only then I had really understand myself that I really like her almost lke failling in love, so I want to change myself never to lie and all that again in the next 2 years to forget her completely ...... I really believed if I truly love her I would meet face to face someday, There still a lot more i want to say but that just briefly
Should I really change in these two years or contact her again or something else
2006-10-21 04:00:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Wow... I reckon you're very confused!
I say, just leave it and find someone else and
be honest from the beginning next time!
2006-10-21 04:10:16 · answer #1 · answered by Luv Thy Neighbour! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, ur trapped in ur own trap...the web of lies that u told her...I wouldn't be surprised if she never talked 2 u again...remember: it's easier to lie but sooner or later, u WILL get caught no matter what....although it's harder to tell the truth, it's the best way 2 go since it doesn't leave any regrets in the future, u don't have 2 remember the "lies" u told, u wouldn't be as confused as u r rite now, & it doesn't leave any scars on the heart. I suggest u express ur feelings 2 the girl u liked...this time, be honest...if she accepts ur apology, then that is true love. But give her enuf time 2 think over this...u told her years worth of lies...she needs to dig into her heart & think if she still wants to be with u...I'm sure she'll appreciate ur truth & courage to speak it. Gud luck!
2006-10-21 11:11:31 · answer #2 · answered by Intellectual 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that now you should rectify everything that you've done. Come clean with her and allow her to make the decision (as to if she ever wants to be bothered with you again). Never lie about who you are, sweetie. Just because you don't have confidence in yourself doesn't mean that no one else will. What if (by all your lies) you ruined the best thing that could have ever happened to you? Always be yourself. Always be true and love will find you.
2006-10-21 11:09:01 · answer #3 · answered by shellese2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your going to have to live with the consequences of your actions unfortunately. HONESTY is the best policy! That quote was NOT created because its BS. I feel your insecurities, everyone has them. If you miss talking to her that much contact her, be honest and open. I am sure much of your true self came out in the long period of converstations you had. Be yourself, I am routing for you!! GOD BLESS!
2006-10-21 11:04:21 · answer #4 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really like her you should contact her again. tell her that your sorry for lieing its just that you really liked her and didnt want her to think you were stupid or something. Just tell her the truth. And dont lie to her again.
2006-10-21 11:07:05 · answer #5 · answered by Skylar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE IS A FOUR LETTER WORD LIKE THE "F" WORD, BRO.
IF YOU LOVE HER THAT MUCH APOLOGIZE IN EVERYWAY POSSIBLE AND SET THINGS STRAIT. IT'S EASY TO LOVE OVER THE INTERNET. IT'S HARD TO FIND REAL LOVE OVER IT THAT'S WHY SEXLESS BASTARDS LIKE MYSELF ARE CHATTING AWAY WHEN I SHOULD BE OUT LOOKING FOR A JOB AND MEETING A GIRL FACE TO FACE INSTEAD OF HIDING FROM IT. GET YOUR MACK DADDY AZZ ON THAT INTERNET AND GO GET YOUR WOMAN YOU SOON-TO-BE-PIMP!
2006-10-21 11:08:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋