How often should my boyfriend hug me? Im 14 and this other guy told me that its "weak" that he hugs me only once a day...but if he does hug me more we will get a detention from the aids...but he still says that my bf should figure it out and hug me more like he would if he was my boyfriend...(this other guy is obbsesed with me) should i dump my bf and go with the other guy? or forget the other guy and stay with my bf?
2006-10-21 03:55:14 · 9 answers · asked by Jenny A 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Makeup
Hmmm, how about suggesting a group hug once a day with both guys? Then everyone gets two hugs a day :)
Brilliant!
2006-10-21 04:01:06 · answer #1 · answered by white_yack 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is none of the obsessed guys business. And stay away from obcessed guys; trust me. It's your business and your bf's business about hugging. There are no rules about how often a 14 year old bf should hug his gf. If your bf is treating you right, according to you and not to the obsessed guy, then chill. If not, talk to your bf about it. That's what bf's and gf's are supposed to do; talk about things more personal than the weather. Good luck.
2006-10-21 11:05:07 · answer #2 · answered by OU812 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 14. Why are you tying yourself down to one guy? If one hug a day is not enough for you, have you talked to your boyfriend about it, told him you would like to hug more often? If he's not willing, he will always be a stick-in-the-mud. Leave him in the mud and move on. You are too young to not be making the most of this time, which should be the most fun, carefree time of your life so far! You should be enjoying yourself and not be so serious yet!
2006-10-21 11:10:20 · answer #3 · answered by Tina R 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
people THAT WANT SOMETHING FROM YOU will always put themselves in a position of champion till they get what they want, in my opinion just because the guy over the fence says that his grass is greener over there dosn't mean it really is and if it is what makes you think it will remain that way, you chose oyur bf for a reason and he is clearly strategising to make you doubt your choice anybody that can be that selfish are not necessarely better than what you have right now...
2006-10-21 13:21:08 · answer #4 · answered by OceanJade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you stay with your bf the other guy is just saying this to break you guys up so he'll have a shot..what is a hug anyway..It's how he shows he likes you, I say once is more than enough =]
2006-10-21 10:57:40 · answer #5 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You are 14. So whoever you pick now there is just little probability that he fits the criteria. I think you should give your bf a chance.
2006-10-21 11:07:40 · answer #6 · answered by coolerwaters301 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget the other guy. he's just trying to make you angry at your bf and letting you believe in him. stick to your bf.
2006-10-21 11:27:49 · answer #7 · answered by alivciinaa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to stop worrying about what your friends think is enough hugging. if you think its enough then thats all that matter
2006-10-21 11:03:22 · answer #8 · answered by lilshorty3088 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tel the other guy to find his own girl and mind his own business.
2006-10-21 10:58:21 · answer #9 · answered by demilspencer@yahoo.com 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋