yahoo 360. They havent talked to each other in 1yr and 1/2. She never wanted him to even see his son. And then last saturday he found her on yahoo 360. So he saw his son Tuesday and Wednesday. And i am glad that he gets to see his son but is it nessisary that he emails her now and im's her. I mean I know that they have to talk because of their son but emails and just saying hi's. I dunno sounds a little weird to me. Am I just being jealous or should i watch my back. He says that there is nothing going on and that i need to stop worrying...but its just really strange. What do yall think?!
2006-10-21 03:54:27 · 16 answers · asked by sexycat_1984 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
its natural to feel jealous.especially with a woman who has a child that he has not seen in a while...of course he is going to feel that he needs to be in touch with her cause he may be afraid he wont see his baby again...remember the X will forever be in your life...so its not weird that they email once in a while but let him know not to leave you out of the picture..you have a right to know whats going on to a point..don't let these feeling get bottled up...express your self and let him know how you feel.And if this girl is into playing games..you ll know that too.If he has a problem with you checking out some of the emails..then you have something to worry about..if he puts your worries to rest with reassurance that he loves you and only you and your overwhelmed ....give him room ...but not too much..good luck
2006-10-21 04:20:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Feelings are not right or wrong--they just are. And of course, it's natural for you to feel jealous. Your boyfriend obviously had a close, intimate relationship with this girl or they wouldn't have made a baby together. Who knows what may happen if they keep talking and seeing each other? You can't really control that, but you can be aware and alert to the situation. Don't be a sucker. Men will say anything to convince you they're being honest when they're doing something they don't want to get caught at. I would play it cool for a while because overt jealousy could drive him away from you and right into her arms. But keep your eyes and ears open for signs that things aren't quite as innocent as he may be trying to make them seem.
2006-10-21 04:03:57 · answer #2 · answered by picassoesque 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't get too defensive right away. wait and give it a lil while and see how he acts. it may be he has seen his soon, and wanting to get back with your ex. he may just being friendly to be able to have more contact with the child.
this can be a very confusing situation. he would be the only one who really knows. just keep an eye out, but don't go all out with accusations yet. I would bring it up to him that it seems he is going overboard, but don't make it seem its such a big deal.
maybe he will realize its bothering you, and slack off on it, or tell you why he is doing it!
Best of luck!
2006-10-21 03:59:26 · answer #3 · answered by vbeaver31 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think that you're in a really tough spot. He wants to be close to his son, which should make you happy that he's a responsible father, but you have to be willing to accept that there will always be a part of him that has nothing at all to do with you. If you're willing, then great, but if not, you better get out now before you begin to affect his relationship with his son.
2006-10-21 03:57:23 · answer #4 · answered by smashley 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why don't you go with him to meet his son next time? Then you can check out the ex and see what their relationship is like. See what kind of vibes you get from her.
2006-10-21 03:57:34 · answer #5 · answered by pamgissa 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you are right he does need to talk to her about their kid together. and when he seen his kid did you get to go with him? i think that he should have taken you along. beings she waited all this time to let him see his kid and he now has a life with you, so she will have to deal with that and his kid will have to get to know you as well. the next time he plans on going to see his kid ask him if you can go along if he says no then i suggest you do more than watch your back!!!
2006-10-21 04:36:17 · answer #6 · answered by here to help 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they should only be contacting each other about the son not just saying hello or something id watch out if i were you
2006-10-21 04:07:00 · answer #7 · answered by advicelady 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i got angry just reading that. he is cheating on you. she clearly dumped him and not the other way around. guys are animals that always want the girl that that doesn't want them. he shouldn't have had a baby out of wedlock anyway. how ghetto to find your baby's mother online. why are they all of a sudden talking now. don't worry, in 10 years he'll be fat and balding and no woman will want him. do find yourself a younger man whose not pathetic and knocked up with babies. tell him you want a man with class and no bastard children.
2006-10-21 03:59:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
His baby dosnt hav a mobile, so he cant respond to him directly. And so he calls her up and keeps a channel open to relate to the kid. There is no wrong. He loves his kids and that is important as it will be the same him who will look after y our kids. If he dosnt relate to his now, he will nvr do it for yours. So let him indulge. Its for your own good saweety
2006-10-21 04:04:27 · answer #9 · answered by fantasyland 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't do anything until you are absolutly sure something is going on( you need solid proof), But KEEP YOUR EYES OPEN and LISTEN TO EVERTHING he says.
2006-10-21 03:58:50 · answer #10 · answered by mslilbit24 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋