2006-10-21 03:53:51 · 14 answers · asked by YM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Compatibility, kindness, how he is around children, caring, understanding and willing to help with housework, financially, emotionally and sexually. If you find that. He's a keeper.
2006-10-21 03:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by flower 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your question is wrong from the beginning - there is no such a thing as "suitable" husband, if you go on picking husband by different criteria you will end up really unhappy person. If you follow life, fall in love and get married not thinking about his "suitability" there is always a chance that he may not be the person you want, but that's what life is about - making mistakes and learning from them, you will never do anything worthy in your life if you will be afraid of making mistakes and try to do everything "by the book". My advice is - RISK MORE!
2006-10-21 12:26:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With the divorce rate of 50%, you should ask others? Apparently half of the answers you recieve will be wrong. You should be considering what you can accept in a partner. What things you can tolerate or not endure. Now, it the time for you to define yourself and your expectations....not other peoples' ideals. How can someone possibly judge what is good for you? When you meet and person and learn about him, forget the infatuation or the lust...remember this is supposed to be a lifetime situation. How can any addle-pated person in a casual relationship and two illegitimate kids and living in a run-down mobile home, sipping beer, smoking pot give you substantial advice?
2006-10-21 11:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by Frank 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't choose a suitable husband, you should let your heart find the right man. Your heart will lead you in the right direction.
2006-10-21 10:57:42 · answer #4 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Choose someone who is willing to meet you halfway. Someone who is willing to run with you and stay with you no matter what obstacles are thrown at you two to separate you, break you, or tear you apart. Someone who is willing to love you no matter who you are or what your past is. And when you find this person, you'll know because everyday will become a great day no matter what knowing that this person is now in your life. I found mine, and lots of luck to you.
2006-10-21 11:03:43 · answer #5 · answered by MSLH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mother's used to tell their daughter's that they should marry someone who loves them more than they love him. There is some truth to this, but it's not the whole ballgame. You should find someone who is your best friend, someone who you can talk to about ANYTHING, someone who you look at and think, "God, I really love this man" and someone you can "argue" with in a soft voice (no yelling) and find a happy medium. Also, a man who follows through with everything he says he's going to do is a keeper.
2006-10-21 11:21:18 · answer #6 · answered by Lioness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, ask yourself if you would be happy if both of you had to live on what he can earn.
second, does he like the city you want to live in.
third, will he get on ok with your family
fourth, will he let you work if you want to.
fifth, how many children do you want
sixth, is he aggressive or considerate.
that should be a good start.
2006-10-21 14:21:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hoo boy, that's a biggie. Maybe one who honors and respects you, has basically the same goals as far as children, money and social life and one who kinda cranks you up.
2006-10-21 10:57:17 · answer #8 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find an older man with lots of money..
2006-10-21 11:18:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-21 11:07:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋