I am a sort of teen, just turned 18 and i have a boyfriend. he is called Dan.i dont know what i should do. he is nice and i love him but when he gets angry, i get really scared,
1 night i did something to anger him( we were in bed) and he spanked me really hard on the bum.he does it all the time. it doesnt hurt 2 much, but the way he does it is scary. he brings his face up close to mine and hisses " do you want a spank Sophie?" when i say no, he pushes me onto the bed, pulls down my skirt & pants and gives me a real good spanking.
after he does it, he's really sorry, and kisses me and buys me presents. i dont like the presents. he got me this topwhich u can c my boobs and a really short skirt with a hole in the back to show my bum.
he loves to make me look sexy and for his biggest present he hired these special people to make me look REALLY sexy. they applided loads of make up, fitted me into this short dress and i looked really sexy but i hated it.
shall i leave him? but i love him!
2006-10-21 03:47:08 · 32 answers · asked by hunkybabey 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
thanks 2 all u guys! plz keep the answers cumin in tho!
if i get enough, ill give him 1 last night of pleasure, then dump him. so he wont spank me tonight, ill put on all the sexy stuff he bought me. hes arranged for the sex people to come again in 5 mins, he just txt me from the pub.he ses it was a 'present for me'.
uh oh. i think theyre here. yep they r. ill get them to tell me what theyre gonna do, then come up n report. then ill tell them 2 go. and ive had enogh now. ill dump him in 20 mins, via txt. im scared!
2006-10-21 04:10:39 · update #1
the people were going to fit me a sexy bra by feelin my boobs to find the exact fit. then fit me a thong by feelin my bum.
then strap me to one of those table things, i had to shut my eyes for half an hour, then they would of made me the exact perfect outfit.
im so sorry, but im lettin them do it. here is one of them to talk to u guys. i am going into another room whilst they do this. see you guys later....
hello.
i am Pete from a company licenced in sex. we had a call from Daniel to make his lady look sexy. i am fully trained, so do not worry. we fit sex tops and bottoms by feeling the lady. if you have had this done you will know how great it is.I enjoy this job because i get to see naked women! anyway, Sophie is in safe hands.I have felt her before, she is a super sexy women. Daniel will be pleased with the results.He loves Sophie, and that is why he spanks her.We encourage that, as it shows love. I spank her accasionally!
Do not worry,
Pete
2006-10-21 04:40:20 · update #2
doesn't matter if you love him..if he won't stop doing what you don't want him to do, THEN HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU...him buying you presents makes him feel better about what he did, but as you can see, THE PRESENTS ARE FOR HIM, AND NOT FOR YOU.
Based on his actions, i don't think he'll ever change...dump his ***
2006-10-21 03:50:05 · answer #1 · answered by redims81 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ally H and redims81 make good points. Honey, there are many MANY other wonderful guys out there for you who will love you no matter what and never, ever abuse you. This is a crime on his part. The presents are not for you, they are to make him feel better about what he's doing to you, and to give him satisfaction. He should think that you are gorgeous without revealing clothes or people to "make you look really sexy." It doesn't sound like he's planning on stopping. Boyfriends should NOT make you really scared, at any point. Ask yourself: do you love him, or the thought of him/ the security of a boyfriend? You don't need someone who does this to you. I know it's very hard to accept now, but think about how fantastic it would be to have someone just as good without the bad things. If you are afraid of what he might do if you leave him or if you ever don't feel safe with him, tell someone with authority over him or just call the police. Good luck to you.
2006-10-21 03:58:25 · answer #2 · answered by Ash 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every child is different. Many girls respond well to spankings well into their teens while spanking is usually useless with boys after the age of 10 or 11. Generally, spanking remains a valuable parenting tool, among others, for as long as the child responds to spankings with improved behavior. My 15 year old daughter is still spanked. Her older sister got her last spanking at 13. It all depends on the child.
2016-05-22 07:34:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spanking and domination can be a great turn on, my Girlfriend loves it, but the thing is, it has to be consensual - if you hate it, he has no right to demand it of you. If he loves you, he will understand that. Confront him with your feelings, and let his response help you judge whether to leave him. It does sound as if he has issues that go beyond the spanking thing, though, his anger, and his attempt to turn you into some sort of trophy. I'd think very hard about this relationship.
2006-10-21 04:07:15 · answer #4 · answered by Avondrow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 18 and yet your boyfriend buys you sexy stuff for you to dress up in. I would like to know how old this boyfriend of yours is. I wouldn't give him 1 night of pleasure, dump him and dump him now!!!! I am 35 and would never let a man treat me like this. You are still a child - get out there and enjoy yourself with your friends, you shouldn't have to be dealing with this kind of crap at your age its way to heavy!!
2006-10-21 04:30:53 · answer #5 · answered by gypsyeyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him babe, i know it must be hard, you love him but he obviously doesnt love you and is trying to make you into something that he wants. This is hurting you, you say you hate it all. What do you love really, him, or the attention he gives you?
Get rid of him, go out into the world and be your own woman. You seem to have lost yourself with this guy and you know it. Find yourself again, then if your ready, find a guy who will respect you and love you for who YOU are, not what he can make you into.
All the best honey,
good luck.
Sam
2006-10-21 03:53:25 · answer #6 · answered by sam.trask@btinternet.com 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask him why he does this? Sounds like he has some psychological problems he really needs some THERAPY! It kind of sounds like he spanks you like a little kid, he could be a child mulestor. Man that is scaring me. If it doesn't get fixed you need to leave him. NO MAN SHOULD EVER HIT A WOMAN FOR ANY REASON unless you know he is playing. That's not cool. Get him some help.
2006-10-21 03:56:12 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs.Dennis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he spanks you then you should. He buys you bad presents. And if he doesn't let you go, tell your parents. It's the only thing left to do. I know you're a teenager but do you want to be spanked by the rest of your life by some dude who buys you bad presents?
2006-10-21 03:50:49 · answer #8 · answered by Vanessa<3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is spanking u u should dump him becuze it is just wrong
have u ever thought of pressing charges
p.s. i am sorry that he is doing this 2 u
2006-10-21 16:28:41 · answer #9 · answered by Marissa S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a Control Freak and a Pervert. Dump him doouble quick, seek help he is an abuser.
2006-10-24 09:07:07 · answer #10 · answered by rogerglyn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. Now. Before you have kids. You're in an abusive relationship with a manipulative man. It will only get worse.
2006-10-21 04:09:29 · answer #11 · answered by dr_imzadi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋