Yes. We don't live in isolation and though it is not healthy to live only for others, we have to give and take. It depends on what you're talking about changing though and whether it will really make a difference.
Sometimes we just keep on doing things to try and please that person who's busy watching the television and won't look up. That can really have a negative impact on a relationship and one's esteem. However, there are times when we like people but wish, perhaps, that they didn't talk with their mouth open or that they weren't so shy or so boisterous. You can't change who you are completely and if the change is too difficult for you then it is unreasonable but if you can change some aspect to please a person who will notice, then do it.
The shy person should try and make an effort to go dancing with the other half who loves dancing, and the boisterous person should be attuned to when it is better to listen to that person...
2006-10-21 03:50:04
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answered by Tarun Banerjee 2
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I have change something about myself for another person when I was younger. Now I don't think I would change for another person
2006-10-21 03:45:49
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answered by MJane21 5
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Sure as long as it didn't change me to someone that I couldn't live with. Because after all you have to live with yourself 24/7 forever.
2006-10-21 03:45:32
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answered by Queen Sis 2
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NEVER!!! I am who I am and that's final so ya you don't like me for who I am then you get kicked to the curb this very instant no time for fake people and sh*t I'm me and I always will be
2015-11-21 19:06:52
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answered by ? 5
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I'd change a few things but not my looks
2015-11-21 14:16:41
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answered by Anna 4
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Nope... I tried doing that when I was 12 (just to fit in) and I was very unhappy... I'd rather make myself happy rather than some one else... okay, that didn't sound right but it's true... I'm not a people pleaser, anyway.
2006-10-21 03:43:15
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answered by misery 7
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Yes....It Might Take Some Doing ~ But I'd Give It My Best Shot.....
2006-10-21 18:03:59
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answered by DR. HARPOâ⢠5
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I have, then I realized that I wasn't happy with the change and that people should love you for who you are. If they don't, then they aren't someone you should associate with.
2006-10-21 03:45:14
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answered by ☼Earthbound Misfit☼ 4
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Not anymore, I learned that lesson from a very good friend, the hard way.
2006-10-21 03:44:00
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answered by Anonymous
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Yeah, as long as it was good for me, otherwise, the other person is trying to bring you down!
2006-10-21 03:53:26
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answered by dollface 5
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