me and my boyfrind split 3mths ago... alot has happened, there has been alot of resentment with us, he's done thigns to hurt me and vise versa... I finshed things as I couldnt c a light at the end of the tunnel even tho I was/am in-love with him, I done a silly thing and got my ex back on the scene within days and my ex was devistated, understandably... he begged for me back but I said no... then 2mths later I knew I couldnt live without him so I tried to prove myself 2 him but he stared seeing some girl he met, they've offically been together 1wk, ive begged him bk bt he says talking to me f*cks his head up & that I cut him up so much he has made himself shut off his feelings for me, he says he loves me bt he just doesnt no if he's in-love anymore... we slept together a wk ago and I think I might be pregnant, is this going to push him further away and resent me more??
2006-10-21 03:38:01 · 10 answers · asked by M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ive been a mess, I cant eat or sleep and ive been sick and thats whats scares me becuase I know that can stop ur pill from working and havent started my new pack... I do want him back, but I want him to want me becuase he wants to be with ME!!! Im scared and worried, in talkings sake if I am would it make matters worse push him away further or should I just have an abortion and not tell him?
2006-10-21 04:20:18 · update #1
Well, we do learn from life's experiences and it looks you may have learned a hard one. We also need to live with our mistakes. So sorry and no insult intended. You just need to be strong, calm, logical, and let life happen. This is a decision you and only you need to make because you will be the one to live that life. Best of luck to yu.
2006-10-21 03:50:01 · answer #1 · answered by old_woman_84 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you slept together a week ago, you couldn't possibly know that you are pregnant. It appears that you and this guy bring out the worse in each other. He's trying to move on and I think you should as well. Haven't a relationship built on past hurt and resentment doesn't provide a strong foundation for a "forever" relationship. He is no longer in love with you and you should both move on.
2006-10-21 03:58:02 · answer #2 · answered by Lioness 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want your life to be like a Jerry Springer show? Stay away from personal drama, hold your head up high, move on. If you slept together one week ago - no way can you know if you are pregnant - so that means you are hoping.
Clean up your act and stop being a low class drama queen. You can decide to live your life with dignity and integrity. Move on and do not look back. It will take time but you can do it.
2006-10-21 03:43:45 · answer #3 · answered by chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you slept with him a week ago, and now you think your pregnant? first of all there is no way that you would know that after a week. it sounds to me that you are hoping that you are, in hopes that will get him back. it also seems to me that you are wanting him more now because he has found someone else. move on , it is over. beside if you were to get back together, those things that you did to each other to hurt one another will always be on yours and his minds and in your hearts, and sooner or later those things will break you up any way.
2006-10-21 04:13:03 · answer #4 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your pregnant your guna **** his hed up even more take it cool hav a conversation with him on the phone say that you really need to talk in person tell him your sorry for all the things youve done to him and that you think you have a future togeter if he agrees to come over leave a pregnancy test were he will see it then say that you think you might be pregnant but you wanted to take the test with him because you wanted him to know when you did *hug him and wisper your sorry*
take the test and look at the result together
*good look if its positive*
*good look if its negative*
but be very calm you have been a ***** to him he needs you to help him
2006-10-21 03:45:59 · answer #5 · answered by Charlotte.♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to get over a broken heart is to go through the pain that is suppose to come with it...time heals pain.... ive been there..and your not suppose to play with peoples feelings.!!You went back to your x because you didn't want to be alone....on the rebound so to say...in any case try to learn from your experiences so you don't have to go thru this again...its called growing up....take care.
2006-10-21 03:55:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a silly little girl, and you and your ex boyfriend deserve every hurtful thing you do to each other.
One day when you both grow up, hopefully you will each get married - to different people.
2006-10-21 03:41:56 · answer #7 · answered by steven b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Nevermind, it doesn't matter if you're 100. Grow up!
2006-10-21 03:56:41 · answer #8 · answered by Joy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offence right but who the hell told u to sleep with him, srry but ur kinda really stupid
2006-10-21 03:42:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2006-10-21 03:40:38 · answer #10 · answered by resterrampant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋