I have been best friends with this one girl ever since the 9th grade. we both secretly liked each other since 9th grade. well two years ago, she had gotten a boyfriend and she been together with him for almost two years, and recently. I slept over her place not long ago, and she felt a sleep next to me on a couch, and then after that day, she told me that she felt right sleeping next to me for the very first time and she never felt that way with anyone else... she also realized that she still is in love with me, and I told her that I love already as more then a friend, and she told me that she loves as more then a friend to... but then again i don't know if she really loves me or just toying with my mind... she is still with her boyfriend and she told me that she is waiting for something to happpen, but what? I am just lost... should i ask her out or something or what? i am just lost.... if you want more info please email me at dalastresortisme @ yahoo.com
2006-10-21 03:05:44 · 13 answers · asked by Life and time, we are given on earth is amazing 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Thank you all, especially you benjilove, my best friend actually told me that she wants to have sex with me, but i dont because i don't like cheaters and i been cheated on before more then once and it hurts, and i told her that, i reallly didn't want to do that unless we some how get married... but yeah... ill just ask her is she wants to be my girlfriend or if she still wants to remain with her boyfriend... I am going to take that chance... I hope are friendship wont be screwed up...
2006-10-21 03:21:21 · update #1
well... whatever u do dont let her cheat on her bf with you...so dont make a move...just ask her out...and if she leaves her bf for u then she really loves u.... go for it...whatever u do dont kiss her or anything just ask her out
2006-10-21 03:36:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful...it sounds like a dangerous situation. You could easily ruin the friendship. She sounds confused...if she hasn't broken up with the boyfriend, then there are obviously some feelings still there. Not to mention, by giving her the chance to cheat on him, you'd be doing all three of you a disfavor. She knows how you feel and you know how she feels...I'd contentrate on the friendship for now. Even if the two of you do eventually get togehter, would you really want to know that it started with deception? Plus, and I know this sounds wierd, but it is very easy for a girl to lose respect for a guy who will submit to being "the other man".
2006-10-21 10:11:59 · answer #2 · answered by benjilove 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say you should ask her out before you lose her, but I do think that if the two of you decide to go out you should take your time with it. You may after a few dates realize that you better off just remaining friends. It is a fine line in situations like that. You don't want to take things to far to quick that may change your friendship. If you take your time the two of you may ultimately realize you belong together. Good luck!
2006-10-21 10:10:42 · answer #3 · answered by candyzaqt 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go for it man, you dont owe her current bf anything. Take her away if you can. Sleep with her anyway even if she doesnt leave him. I will always regret the chances ive passed up because various chicks i liked had boyfriends. Its a bf, not a husband, go for it.
2006-10-21 10:10:41 · answer #4 · answered by rand a 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When she says she's waiting for something to happen, maybe she's saying she's waiting for you to do something about it. Maybe she wants to be sure you love her enough to make a move. She is probably as scared as you, even more so, actually, since she is involved with someone.
2006-10-21 10:08:46 · answer #5 · answered by smashley 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i hope your going to overstand me !!! as it is the girl really loves you ,do not get lost saying that she is waiting for something to happen it meands,(she is waiting for her time boyfriend to make any mistake ,like cheating ,fighting her E.T.C)so that she can pretend to be hurt and get lost
2006-10-21 10:34:13 · answer #6 · answered by MUTESA h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, why don't you actually ask her, and if shes faithful and not lying, she'll dump him to be with you. Maybe you should wait until they break-up, THEN ask her out. Talk to her about it though, girls like that. Good luck though...
2006-10-21 10:10:30 · answer #7 · answered by Caity 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
shes confused just let things wind down or take the chance and ask her to choose you or him
2006-10-21 10:36:51 · answer #8 · answered by peaches 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for gods sakes man - get it on with her , lifes too short for wondering. You both feel the same so whats the problem !
2006-10-21 10:08:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if she really loves u as she said then she should breakup with herb/f first tell her to decide casue u must know ur situation here lover or friend
2006-10-21 10:13:15 · answer #10 · answered by eng_meda 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋