My friend is so judgemental. Whenever I talk about how I respect, for example, Buddha, she's like "OMG. That's evil crap. God's gonna strike you down if you believe in that."
And also, when I say that I love the way Asian people sing, she's like "EWW, you like Asian people?!" So on and so on.
And then, I told her how I believe in ghosts, she says "That's evil. You shouldn't believe in that. You're going to get struck by God".
She thinks she's such a Christian, but she's a hypocrite by judging other people.
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My question is.... What do I say to my prejudice friend to make her stop?! It's annoying!
2006-10-21 02:46:55 · 7 answers · asked by ~beauty~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This is REALLY weird.....because i am going through kind of the same thing right now...i have a black boyfriend & i HAD this friend that could not stand him for the simple reason of him being black....she was always criticizing him & downgrading him in front of me & i hated it...i finally told her that if she couldnt respect my decisions, there is no point in being friends....I go through that a lot though because of the way society is...so i guess you should just tell her that she should respect your opinions & decisions b/c if she doenst, shes probably not a very good friend...NO ONE can change the way you believe...and they also shouldnt try.
2006-10-21 03:56:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately prejudice is something that is hard to control or stop. You can always talk to her and tell her that you don't like her making such comments, as it's making you feel uncomfortable. Alternatively, just avoid the kind of topics that get her commenting like this. Or you can just give some space in the friendship.
2006-10-21 03:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by Strange1am 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relies upon on what you propose with the help of prejudice. in my view i hit upon it very a snort while my acquaintances jokingly make racially profiling comments, exceedingly in the event that they're truths that absolutely everyone seems to be acquainted with is authentic, yet pretends like it is not. it is even funnier in the event that they make the pun on an ethnicity or team they're aside of. Like if a Puerto Rican guy is conversing approximately filling out the census type and says some thing like.. yeah i presumed approximately checking off the PR container, yet then I in basic terms placed Caucasian, Yeah i did no longer decide for my sources fee to flow down anymore now that the housing marketplace is commencing to stabilize. yet on the different hand it is in basic terms way stressful while somebody starts off making truly hatred crammed racist comments and you already know they do no longer look to be joking interior the slightest
2016-10-02 12:49:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but your friend is disrespectful and rude. Just tell your friend that you can't stand when she disrespects others and ask her to stop. If she doesn't stop find another friend. I personally could not stand to be around someone like that.
2006-10-21 03:40:53 · answer #4 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be able to stand her. Tell her there are all different views people have. Keep hers to herself.
2006-10-21 02:51:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
real friends would not disrespect you the way she does
2006-10-21 02:53:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she sure limits GOD! If god can do anything, then anything is possible!
2006-10-21 02:50:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋