And they should stay secret cos I dont wanna ruin friendship, plus she's with someone but she keeps wanting me to meet her bf. I can disguise my feelings when its just me & her but dont think I could handle being around them both as a couple....
Its either bite the bullet & maybe act like a dick, or i dont know what?
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2006-10-21 02:37:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yo buddy, i've been in such a r/s before but i'm not in your post but the girl's post. sumhow i felt that you shd tell the girl your feelings. hiding your feelings is going to make you feel ill and uncomfy. get rid of it and you'll be more comfortable. don't worry about hurting her or her partner. most importantly, you shdnt let this hinder your future with her. if you fails, its ok..at least you let out your feelings and that's going to stop yourself from thinking of her and putting your affection. you can also choose to continue to like her or put a stop to everything and become gd friends with her.
2006-10-21 03:11:30 · answer #1 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey you know what, if you have secret feelings for a friend and wont ever admit it, your life will be just like it is today, everyday and forever, just feeling hurt and not good enough.
You should be honest with her, tell her how you feel, no woman will ever think bad of a guy that says he has more than friendship feelings. If you tell her straight, either way it'll go in your favour eventually.
.......How bad will it be to live with what ifs?!
2006-10-21 04:20:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in love with a friend, maybe still am but they married someone else and I've had to start trying to get over it and accept how things are. They knew how I felt yet still got married, it broke my heart but what's done is done now and there's nothing left for me to do since i want them to be happy
2006-10-21 23:17:01 · answer #3 · answered by Samantha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am... just tell him/her that you love her/him! If you're ashamed just write to her/him using mail or email or just tell him/her that you are not going to ruin the friendship you are just having a secret feelings for him/her!
2006-10-21 02:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her straight that you don't want to interrupt her and her bf. And why does she keep wanting you to meet her bf? Maybe she likes you and wants to evoke some reaction from you?
2006-10-21 02:51:14 · answer #5 · answered by G K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be slick!Be selfish!If you see that things are not that cozy&warm there, "divide and conquer"!If things are ok, let them be.Eventually, this will pass.Either your feelings toward her or their relationship.
But if you do not have the heart to be a slime, take a seat and enjoy what you see!If she is really a friend and you are not just attracted to her............
2006-10-21 02:42:25 · answer #6 · answered by Dia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tell u wat bro, i know exactly how u feel, wat u do is just tell her how u rally feel, this way u know she a true friend or not because if she is she jus say she see u as a friend and she wont force u 2 see her wid her man, and if she dont value ure friendship then she tell she dont like n wont chat 2 u, i mean jus take each step as it comes and i tell u, hosnesty is the best policy.... jus tell her and see wat she says... thats wat im going to do
2006-10-21 02:58:14 · answer #7 · answered by IBRAHIM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its alright had this same thing to my friend he just told me about the crush he was having on me and i was completely ok with it we are still friends though thats so cute and nice that she wants you to meet him just tell her your feelings its better of
2006-10-21 02:41:29 · answer #8 · answered by ..::pimpin azn grl::.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not know to say u r in a though place
2006-10-21 02:45:48 · answer #9 · answered by sassykassy95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have got it real bad why don't you tell her how you feel ?
2006-10-21 04:00:02 · answer #10 · answered by nancy_habershon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋