2006-10-21 02:20:42 · 22 answers · asked by Lisa 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
When that person stops letting whatever or whoever it is that's affecting their life do that to them, as hard as it is to go from been a victim to been a survivor its is the only way for your own sanity and to move forward with your life again, victims feel sorry for themselves and survivors don't, been there, seen it and done it, thank god I have survived it.
2006-10-21 12:57:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
A person becomes a survivor when they decide to stop being a victim!
2006-10-21 02:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you make it through the abusive situation you are a survivor. However, once you have gotten away, one should seek some kind of counseling to assist in the healing process. One who has been abused and thankfully survived does not come out untouched, they need to work through the issues so they can move forward with their lives in a healthier manner. Not carrying through guilt, and anxiety from the past experiences. Every human being desires and deserves respect. God bless
2006-10-21 02:31:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting up and out there, stop letting it rule your life. You are here for a good time not for a long time, and yes sometimes life can be hard but life does go on, make it a good one,you get out of life what you put into it!! x o x o
2006-10-21 02:28:01 · answer #4 · answered by sexy babe 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's all about self programming and society/culture programming. You are what you are programmed to be by yourself and by your acquis from the society (including family, school, work etc.). When you realize this and understand it, you will change step by step your behavior from "victim" to "survivor". I know it seems to be a foolish, but we are liers, we lie ourselves a lot and we program ourselves following these lies.
Kris
2006-10-21 02:32:48 · answer #5 · answered by Euroget I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A true survivor is NEVER a victim.
Bad things happen,, they deal with them accordingly
2006-10-21 02:42:50 · answer #6 · answered by landerscott 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When someone begins to think and focus on helping others instead of having self-pity and being introverted.
2006-10-21 07:24:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they stop being a volunteer to situations they have a choice of not participating in...
2006-10-21 02:26:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he or she starts to deal with the trauma that was afflicted on them, and maybe some counsling.
2006-10-21 02:24:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As soon as they realise that they were both all along.
PS nice question - short, but packs a punch.
2006-10-21 02:24:25 · answer #10 · answered by wild_eep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋