How do you live with your spouse once you've filed for divorce and he continues cheating? How do you stop yourself from asking questions and getting hurt over and over? How can you get him to stop disrespecting your feelings until the marriage is officially over?
2006-10-21 02:07:54 · 11 answers · asked by MaknMeCrzy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-10-21 03:20:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, the marriage has been over...You seem to be hanging onto something thats not there...You can't live with someone after you split up...Some people can pull it off,thats because they had a fantastic relationship before and the split was a good one...If he is that disrespectful to you its time to move out...Sorry to say this but, its the truth...As long as you live together, the closer you get to finalizing the divorce, the worse it will get...I wish you all the luck..
2006-10-21 10:03:39 · answer #2 · answered by Frank D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if making him move out is unrealistic, then try to start focus on you and the future that you are facing. It has to be better than what you are going through now. If he is behaving like this, you must get past the "jealousy" and curiosity, he's not worth it. Take pleasure in the fact that the women that he is fooling with now are in for his torture, and disrespect. Don't let him see you hurt, he is probably getting some sort of pleasure out of it as well. What he is doing is abusing you and you don't have to give into it.
2006-10-21 09:16:13 · answer #3 · answered by DeltaQueen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out is the best answer. I know this may not be an option to you but I would ask a relative if you can live with them until you can get on your own two feet. It will bother you tremendously. Why put yourself through that?
2006-10-21 10:09:17 · answer #4 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you have filed for a divorce it means that you are mentally prepared to live separately ( or was it a snap decision?)
so why be emotionally attached to that person with whom you have decided to part with ? I think that you still LOVE that person. Maybe you can still give a try to say SORRY and start your beautiful married life once again as it was before... !! I feel that he too loves you discreetly and covering up his emotions by indulging in extramarital affairs... try to talk to him.. YOU WILL WIN !!
Dr. Stan
2006-10-21 09:19:24 · answer #5 · answered by icemaiden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SCREW HIM!!!! You need to start moving on and what better way but to do it in front of him. You do the same thing because the only way you are going to get him to stop is to move out and that won't even stop him that will just prevent you from having to see it.
2006-10-21 09:56:15 · answer #6 · answered by Suga Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make anyone stop cheating if they want to cheat. Your options are to either kick him out or move out yourself.
2006-10-21 09:12:20 · answer #7 · answered by KT 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can afford to move out, or can stay with a friend, DO IT. Good luck!
2006-10-21 09:12:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY ON EARTH ARE YOU STILL LIVING TOGETHER IF YOU FILED FOR A DIVORCE???
2006-10-21 12:32:51 · answer #9 · answered by kimandkaitlyn2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
itching powder in his underwear?
j/k
hope you have separate bedrooms. Ignore him as long as you can.
2006-10-21 09:11:14 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋