i have been married 7 yrs. i found out my hubby had a deep dark seceret,he likes little girls and he gets pictures of them and cuts and pastes there faces on adult boddies.i found these pictures and most of them were of my daughter and her friends(my daughter is from my 1st marriage)i know this is a serious problem and there are other issues i am having with him.i want a divorice but there are financial issues also need some very good advice
2006-10-21 01:59:15 · 17 answers · asked by babyjack5011 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
people my daughter is 21 know and hasent lived with us for 3 yrs. i just found this out 6months ago
2006-10-21 02:10:30 · update #1
people my daughter is 21 know and hasent lived with us for 3 yrs. i just found this out 6months ago. shes 22 yrs old
2006-10-21 02:14:12 · update #2
Go straight to the police..........why should you even ask? Your daughter is at stake here.
Ok, so your daughter is 21......your husband is a pervert no matter what and if you dont report this then you are as guilty as he is.
2006-10-21 02:01:01 · answer #1 · answered by classy&sassy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand about the financial issues but I think you need to get out. At the very least, you need to talk to your daughter and see if he's did anything more than fantasies. From what I hear, things like this never turn out well. And how could you let your daughter's friends come over any more knowing you were putting them in a potentially bad situation. Leaving would be the best.
2006-10-21 09:04:42 · answer #2 · answered by chr1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take this information very seriously, when a grown man is fantasizing about younger girls including your daughter there is a serious problem. Your hubby needs help and he needs to seek some type of counseling for this behavior. If there are financial issues, you've been married long enough for the courts to decide if he should pay you alimony. You should also seek counseling and support from family and friends who you can trust to help you get through this. You are about to go on a big emotional roller coaster ride if you aren't there already.
2006-10-21 10:35:03 · answer #3 · answered by shuga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's apparent that your husband might be a pedophile if he's "collecting' pictures of young girls. I would wonder if I were you, what else he's doing with this "hobby". In other words, is he trolling pedophile sites on the internet? Has he acted on his "urges?" Has he abused your daughter and/or any of her friends? I think you would have a strong case to get a fairly speedy divorce, considering these dangerous circumstances. You need to speak to a lawyer about this. Unless he adopted your daughter, he probably won't have to pay child support; however, you could ask for 'rehabilitative alimony' to keep you financially stable until you can get a good job. You might also want to go to your local Women's Crisis Services agency and seek information on emotional/psychological abuse.
2006-10-21 09:04:25 · answer #4 · answered by cheyennetomahawk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very serious issue we have here. What I'll advise you to do is to first call your daughter (though you forgot to include her age) ask her if your husband has ever told her anything unusual or has ever done any hanky panky with her before. Then confront your husband with the pictures you found and ask him why she gave your daughter's head another body and also what his supposed daughter's friends pictures are doing where you found them. If nothing is done now don't be surprise to come home one day with your hubby in action with your daughter on your matrimonial bed! act fast we have see and heard stories like that before.
2006-10-21 09:07:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even worry about the financial problems. Your husband is a danger to your daughter, and she's more important than financial problems. You could also go to the police and report him, so that he doesn't keep doing this to other little girls!
2006-10-21 09:03:14 · answer #6 · answered by why? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money issues have nothing to do with it , either call police or get the heck away from him, you must care about your daughter he could do things with her if he has a attraction for young girls or boys for that matter
2006-10-21 09:04:27 · answer #7 · answered by a1_friend64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police. Do it today. Save the evidence. Get out of there and go to a local women's shelter if you have to! Your daughter has probably already been molested and hasn't told you!
2006-10-21 09:06:27 · answer #8 · answered by Amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the cops, call childrens services! Holy crap forget your financial issues....worry about your daughter and her friends before he does something drastic! There are places that can help you! Get the hell out of there right now!
2006-10-21 09:04:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely call the police. This is the worst kind of person to leave unchecked. He sounds like he is willing to abuse your daughter, and other innocent little girls. Stop him!
2006-10-21 09:04:38 · answer #10 · answered by KT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋