be so sure of your your faithfulness to your spouse. another question was put up about this asking about givin the right circumstances could you cheat. the only answers we from the slf proclaiming righteous ones. Now we all know that men just need a open hole to do there business. What would it take you women to cheat or have an affair.Please stop lying to yourself that you couldn't, wouldn't or shouldn't, Just answer what would it take for you to stray outside of your marriage?. PS I know what it took my wife to stray (she was the one who claimed the loudest that she would never do this)
2006-10-21 01:52:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
gee sry that you feel this way. I have questions and am still working it out myself
better to help myself with than to let it ruin my life I have questions that need answers an thought this was an open area to find out how others feel and react to but is see nothing but the self rightious up so early :)
2006-10-21 02:00:47 · update #1
i used to say that cheating is something i just could not understand.i was so sure that i could never grasp the concept.i mean how could anyone do that.well,i completely understand now.i didn't cheat but i almost did.the way it comes about is quite terrifying actually.it is kind of like gardening.a seed needs soil,sun,rain,etc.in order to grow.when you give the seed all it needs to grow you can either have a beautiful flower or you can have a weed.marriage is the flower cheating is the weed.under the right circumstances it can go either way.we have to choose to take the right seed.it is not always easy though.especially if a relationship has other issues to begin with.prayer can pull anyone out from temptation.if we are not rooted in God its easy to just let the weed grow.
2006-10-21 03:17:44 · answer #1 · answered by sue h 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all Marriage is a (or should be) a commitment. It seems like these days, it (marriage) is too easily done. When you pledge your love to each other it should be for ever. Realistically that doesn't happen. but maybe cheating happens because the people won't commit to each other. What do your vows mean to you? Talk to each other. Put God first in your marriage. everything else will take care of itself.
2006-10-21 03:26:56 · answer #2 · answered by mister 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 12 years and I have never cheated on my husband and we have been thru quite a bit together. I know this is not the answer that you want to hear, but I don't think I ever would be unfaithful to him.
2006-10-21 02:17:21 · answer #3 · answered by chr1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents have never been unfaithful to each other. I have never been unfaithful to anyone that I've ever been with.
It's the sinful world we live in. You can never be too sure. If your woman was loose before you met her, chances are she'll be loose even with a ring on her finger. That's a surefire sign right there!
2006-10-21 02:08:29 · answer #4 · answered by Amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would it take for a woman to cheat? Probably being married to an insensitive boor who makes crass remarks about women and is obsessed with "women cheating" as a major theme in his life...
2006-10-21 01:55:49 · answer #5 · answered by cheyennetomahawk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one that is doing all the whining is usually the one that is guilty.
I believe that if the Desire had left a relationship, a need is a need, but a want can be controlled.
Then again, if there is no desire, time to move on.
2006-10-21 02:13:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a lie, I would never cheat on my significant other because I would not want him to cheat on me. If I ever reached that point where I thought I had to have someone else, I would tell my mate that it is over and that I have found someone else.
2006-10-21 02:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by up2sumpthun 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everything is fair in love and war.... Have u been cheated?? If so, go ahead with your plans. If and only if, I am cheated by the someone whom I so dearly love, I would take such a step.
2006-10-21 01:58:08 · answer #8 · answered by Spheris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there done that. my reasons might be different than someone elses. sometimes there is a pretty good reason. other times not such a good reason. it all depends on the specific situation.
sorry you are having problems right now.
2006-10-21 03:08:32 · answer #9 · answered by melinda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY NOTHING dont put me in your damn basket of eggs....talk about self righteous ffs
2006-10-21 02:04:10 · answer #10 · answered by blue_eyed_woman_of_3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋