I don't like him anymore and I've tried to break up with him but he a threatend to hurt himself so i got back with him ,and he talks about how he gonna move down to florida from ohio,and start a family with me and everything but now i have a boyfriend and what should i do should i just ignore his messages and phone calls or should i lie to him and tell him that im a fake thats not my real picture and im only 13(hes 16) what should i do?
2006-10-21 01:51:13 · 11 answers · asked by shakirav_23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ignore him. He's not gonna hurt himself, thats just a guilt trip that control freaks use. And in the future be a lot more careful about what you do and who you hook up with on the internet. It's a whole lot more dangerous than you may think.
2006-10-21 13:35:27 · answer #1 · answered by Kat 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just ignore him, you dont know if this guy is a fake either!! myspace is a very creepy place.. there are a lot of strange people there besides teens and your friends..
you should either CLOSE YOUR MYSPACE or at least make it private. IGNORE his messages and change your phone number (i hope you did not give him your home phone number!!!!!)
he is trying to MANIPULATE you by telling you he is going to hurt himself!!!!! ignore him and move on with your real life.
There are OLDER MEN on myspace that are looking for younger girls.. he could be a PEDOPHILE!!! dont think i am exaggerating!! my boyfriend is a cop & when kids go missing one of the first things the do is check if the child had a myspace!!!!! PLEASE BE CAREFUL!!!!
2006-10-21 01:58:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex husband threatened to hurt himself all the time if I didn't stay together with him. He's doing it to manipulate you into staying with him. This is mental abuse and you don't have to take it!
Tell his parents what he's threatening to do and break off all contact with him immediately! Tell him that he is not to contact you in any way ever again or you will file a report with the police!
If he harms himself, that's his personal mental problem, not yours. "Normal" people don't try to harm themselves. They just move on.
If he continues to harass you after that, call the police and file a protection order against him. Talk to your parents if you still live at home and tell them what he's doing also.
2006-10-21 01:56:17 · answer #3 · answered by Amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ignore him. He seems like an online predator. The huge question is did you give out any more personal information? if so just ignore it for a while and tell an adult just in case he puts his words into action.
2006-10-21 01:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by Lovelander 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change your profile pic to a boys and say that you were in drag and didn't mean to hurt him and if he still wants to date you tell him he has to be the woman in the relationship.
hopefully that works if not delete him as one of your friends and change you phone number. I bet you learned you lesson. hopefully he is not a adult assuming you are a child trying to get to you. Whatever you do DON'T AGREE TO MEET HIM
2006-10-21 01:57:00 · answer #5 · answered by trice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get you r parents involved , how do you know he is only 16 ? he maybe 40 stay awaw from situations like this , there are dangerous people out there , ignore him completely and change your phone # most of all get your parents involved , they know how too handle situations like this ,
2006-10-21 01:57:08 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report him ! Don't take a chance . There are too many pretiors out there . don't be stupid , and maybe get hurt .
2006-10-21 01:55:17 · answer #7 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at your age you must be attend about what are doing.i have a nephew as your age and i advise to do left him with his problems.you are too young to do something that you will be sorry after
2006-10-21 01:58:50 · answer #8 · answered by adela_hantaru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you think, if he continues to insist report abuse :)
2006-10-21 01:54:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should contact the site and tell them that way ythey can take care of it.
hey wat is his name and i can talk to him about it to. write me back and tell me his name cause i am on myspace to and my name is samantha. just tell me his name and his email address and i will just talk to him about it.
write me back asap please but don't forget his name and email address!!!!!!!
2006-10-21 02:13:04 · answer #10 · answered by samantha e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋