I was married to this girl.. Not very attractive but sweet.. she once thought I was cheating on her and divorce me.. I gave up everything for her including the house the cars, custody of our daughter .. etc... few weeks later we came back to live together and thngs went well till about a year later when i started asking her to work less and let me work more ( i was mainly taking care of our daughter )whaile she was putting about 30 hours in OT. She kicked me out and kept asking me to leave and find somene else.. This time I did and married a beautiful younger lady. That drove my ex crasy.. she kept calling in the middle of the night asking me if I am making love to my wife.. My wife kept asking me to call the police but I did not want to .. so my wife left and my ex became very happy.. she took me back and we lived in heaven for a year.. then all of a sudden she changed her mind and kicked me out again. I feel so lost and so played with. What shall I Do?
2006-10-21 01:41:26 · 6 answers · asked by John 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Leave, and never, ever come back. This chick is crazy and needs to get a life. Change your phone numbers, get a new lock (if she has a key) and move somewhere where she cannot find you. You were stupid not to have called the police when she was calling you. What she was doing was stalking! Its illegal and if you had called then she might have left you alone! Oh well, if her behavoir continues once you have your own life again, get a restraining order. That should keep her for a while. Don't be afraid of what she's going to do. Its your life and she's kept you in bondage for long enough!
2006-10-21 01:46:26 · answer #1 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give your head a shake... You went back to be kicked in the .... again... Your ex is a manipulator and you have been played with... She obviously wants want she wants, when she wants it..
When you do not fit into her plan, you are trash...
Get away from her and start your own life again...
If you allow someone to harass you and you don't call them on it, you will pay for it over and over as you did,
The second wife was right, the bad behaviour from your ex was not stopped and spilled over into your 2nd marriage. Can you blame her for leaving... Get some guts and stand tall, don't let people mess with your head and your life... How many years have you wasted with this pirrhana.......
2006-10-21 02:07:38 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are S.O.L sorry. Sounds like your ex was very controlling next time shop around a little. Please keep in contact w your daughter and do not burden her with the probs of the marriage.
I hope you find someone nice.
P.S. did your ex give you back your BITS?
2006-10-21 01:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the hell out and STAY AWAY. You have brought all this on you because you keep on going back. Don't give her another chance or this will continue on, on and on.
2006-10-21 01:53:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow a set,and put your foot down!Quit being a girly,and step up to being a man!Tell her you can't live your life this way!
2006-10-21 01:46:47 · answer #5 · answered by gibbyguys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS LIKE BOTH OF YOU HAVE ISSUES. YOU SHOULD HAVE NEVER LEFT YOUR 2ND WIFE FOR YOUR X-WIFE. GET COUNSELING.
2006-10-21 01:46:53 · answer #6 · answered by kimandkaitlyn2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋