She is very flirty and wants my attention. She is open to most anything but sex. What's the deal?
2006-10-21 01:36:29 · 22 answers · asked by stalin lager 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Could be her husband doesn't give her much attention so she seeks it elsewhere. She sounds lonely but I wouldn't get to invoved with her, she could mistake your attention for something more serious than sex.
2006-10-21 01:44:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its really not your concern about what's going on in her marriage. I suggest you steer clear from her as marrieds are nothing but trouble. Since she's open to anything but sex, probably its her friendly disposition that's making you jump into conclusions.
Its not worth the risk. Do you want to be with her knowing that she sleeps with her husband, will never be with you 24/7, and will lie to you. Even if she leaves her husband for you, she will do the same thing to you. The problems are endless. If she's getting on your nerves, politely tell her off. After that, she'll know that you are not down for anything.
2006-10-21 08:50:37 · answer #2 · answered by Banana Pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of it has to do with a persons personality which can be misinterpreted for someone flirty...I know that I personally come across as being the open flirtatious type and men take it that I'm coming on to them...when in fact I'm just very friendly.....I do enjoy flirting but I would never take it any further than that....Unless she has openly made a suggestion that she would like to be more than that just enjoy her company and carefree attitude....I myself was happily married...
2006-10-21 08:51:02 · answer #3 · answered by Mechelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is married man..u have no choice.this can be pretty dangerous and hard to deal with..if u like her friendship..u have to put a border between u and her if u know where to stand then nothing will be problem u can be just friends with her...watch out not to do anything wrong or to hang out like lovers more than friends...try not to be alone with her....or dont go out drinking..alcohol really gets along with libido.and make up a "fake girlfriend" tell her that u like someone and ask for advice...that will make her to know her position.
2006-10-21 08:59:50 · answer #4 · answered by SvartSjel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe all she really needs is just a friend. Maybe a little flirting helps her ego for the day because she isn't getting the attention at home. If you know nothing is going to come of it, a little attention is a gift from you, a good deed for the day.
2006-10-21 08:44:42 · answer #5 · answered by sillyredhead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just may be her nature... Better keep your distance unless she makes a bold move... could be a great way to lose a job or cause the company you are working for to suffer a sexual harassment law suit.. also remember married women have husbands...and most take it personal when another guy invades their territory.... the something missing might be you..
2006-10-21 08:41:26 · answer #6 · answered by Dirtydog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've known some women like that.
Possibility. That's in her nature and it's how she got her husband or past boyfriends and it's just a part of her nature.
In other words she's a come-on and long, long ago she's carry it further with the right guy, but now she don't becasue she's married. But it's a part of her nature and she doesn't even know it.
2006-10-21 08:39:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Steer clear. There may be something wrong with her marriage, or just with her. Just don't go there. You would be just as guilty as her because you would know she was married. Don't be that guy that decideds not to care. She has a family maybe children, don't wreck their world because she wants to play.
2006-10-21 08:38:36 · answer #8 · answered by Susanne T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably seeks attention...which looks to me as if she is missing it in her marriage back home.
interestingly enough, I had this happen to me a number of years back. someone who was "lonely" tried to get all cozy with me..but I told her I didn't want anything more than friendship....she broke out in tears and I never heard from her again...
stay away from a person like this...nothing good can come out of it...
2006-10-21 08:38:56 · answer #9 · answered by Charlie Bravo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you asked her for sex? or like a typical man you assume she wants or doesn't want sex -- interesting -- the bigger deal is if you know she is married why are you even entertaining her?
and didn't you every hear don't $hit in your own backyard?
2006-10-21 09:30:56 · answer #10 · answered by always helpful 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋