Why is it that when people disagree with others they "respectfully" disagree, but when they disagree with me..

Question

they launch personal attacks and insults against me?

Answer 1

with all due respect, u will have to respect to gain respect..umm umm, i am not judging u...if u respect and still if u dont get respect then those people are to be lectured on respect

Answer 2

You mean for this site only, or in general?
I haven't written or spoke to you before, so it's hard to say. Many people can say the same thing.
Well, either you'll have to word or speak your sentences carefully, or you'll have to be more sensitive. Everyone has their own opinion. Even if you know that they're wrong about something, sometimes it's better to just let it go because some people just like arguing.

When writing messages, it's easy to be misinterpreted. That's why you should use smilies when you're joking about something, Before you send your message, you should look over what you've written to see if what you wrote could be interpreted in a way you didn't intend. In other words, don't be lazy and write as little words as possible. Some people just assume negetive things, so follow up your messages with an explanation if you were misunderstood; Don't just leave things be.
Otherwise, people will form the wrong opinion of you.

Answer 3

I'm sure you aren't the only one who feels like they are attacked.
I used to get a bit insulted, but I realised i interpret things differently to how they shud be. IT happens all the time to people on instant messengers.
Just be careful about what you say

Answer 4

chances are you dont deserve to be respectfully disagreed with, or you are one of those people who takes anybody not agreeing with everything they say as an insult.

Answer 5

Shed the second part of your name & feel the difference.

Answer 6

Are you gentleman,sir, or a blaggard?