Why some Muslim (mostly man, I guess) say that all of us Western women are 'easy'?

Question

To me, as Central European, this is an offence, since among us Christians there are also modest women (including me - no make up, almost no tight clothes, modest dressing - not emphasizing breasts and butt, etc.). And yet, I belive that all those who think that 'we' are 'easy', like to see a woman and her body and do not turn their heads away? Double standards?

Answer 1

It's a totally different culture and the definitions of what is a provocative way to dress are radically different.

The reason muslim men say this is because of what they have been taught.

I'm really not going to go into it but women in islamic countries have a totally different life to women in the western world. Men in islamic countries see women as second class citizens. They are owned by men... you are judging them from a western perspective.

Of course we all think that it's mad but you are under estimating just how strong and hard their opinions are. It isn't a question of women being 'easy'... that is a western idea.

It's a question of a woman provoking a man... you need to do some reasearch if you really are interested.

Just for the record im not muslim or arabic. I used ot live in saudi tho...

Answer 2

It relies upon on the guy. If an eastern guy is perplexing-hearted and abusive, he may well be a similar way if he got here from West. men of all races and nationalities frequently sense threatened whilst a woman is extra effectual than them. There are good ones obtainable (returned of all races) who help women human beings's rights yet no longer adequate. inspect how perplexing Western women human beings had to combat for elementary rights. Did Western men choose that for them? No, and that is too late to pass returned now, like how a number of those US Republicans needless to say choose to. My father is a Western Muslim convert who's that this form of stable father that my acquaintances envy me. undergo in techniques that Western Muslims additionally exist :)

Answer 3

You are right, that statement is offensive. Not all Western or non Muslim women are 'easy'. In fact, Christian women are to remain chaste until they get married, am I right?

I'm sorry if Muslims have offended you by saying that. We all make mistakes and let's hope we learn from them as well.

'Easy' in their terms is having pre-marital sex with many men, which is an acceptable behaviour in the West. Muslim men and women are suppose to remain virgins until they are married, but I am pretty sure not ALL Muslims actually obey this Islamic law.. the same way some Muslims don't obey Allah (it means God in Arabic) when He tells Muslims (via the Qur'an) to not kill innocent people, or commit suicide (terrorists & suicide bombers). My point is, nobody is perfect and only God can judge us.

Answer 4

I guess the proper word would be 'easier'. Western women don't require giving a dowry to thier Father for thier hand in marriage. Also, most western women fall for the simplest things, like a dozen roses, and not much effort on the guys part as long as she's physically attracted to him and he's not acting like too much of a jerk. Sometimes a woman showing off just a little wrist or ankle(Amish porn) is a turn on to me. (hee-hee)

Answer 5

Lust is a major problem with Muslim men because they hide their women behind black sheets and veils so lust in their country is not an issue. Now they have television and they sit around in their tiny rooms with their tongues hanging on the floor watching western women. Any woman who would dare show their face must be a **** in their mind.

Answer 6

Because in secret they would really like their women to be a bit more sexually free and why not,women are women and men are men, no matter what religion you are you still have the same urges.Trying to live by your strict religions sexually or otherwise can cause exact opposite reactions,look at catholic priests.

Answer 7

hey but if you show a little ankle, then what else are you willing to do? It is all a sliding scale to not feel offended by it, to the brazilian guys you are probably a Nun. And what guy does not like to see an "easy girl" (most I know) just because you look does not mean you want to buy

Answer 8

Because since the beginning of time man has degraded women and I personally am tired of the double standard, Women have the right to be the way they are that's what makes them divine and beautiful

Answer 9

Because western women have sexual freedom as Muslim women will probably end up with a honour killing or stoned in Islamic countries

Answer 10

They think we are 'easy' because we go out with a few boyfriends before we find and settle down with the person we love. Their women don't do that - usually marriages are arranged. Different cultures, different views. Each to his own.