another woman, but definitely not with another man? He has no problem having sex with you and another woman together, or even a group of women with you having sex, as long as he is the only guy there, but he would have a problem with another guy in the room, even if the other guy does not penetrate you. I was curious as to why a man would think that way, even if there weren't any strings attatched to it. I am not a guy so that is why I am asking this question, to gain some insight on it. I also realize that not all men think this way either, and some would either be all for having sex with anyone or they'd be on the other extreme and not anyone to have sex with anyone else. Thanks in advance in your answers!
2006-10-21 00:56:48 · 9 answers · asked by Jennifer L 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He is afraid that he may have competition with another man....that's all it boils down to. A man is always thinking about his competition. It sounds like it is one sided, he wants his cake and to be able to eat it too.
2006-10-21 01:07:45 · answer #1 · answered by JJ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As much of an ego boost it would be for a guy to bed two women at the same time, it could crush his ego to see his woman with himself and another guy.
Some men have a problem with it and some don't.
Personally I'm one who wouldn't want to be in any kind of a group sex situation because it's not moral. It may be fun or an ego boost, but in my case I find it wrong.
2006-10-21 08:08:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
i think that you will find that most men wouldn't have a problem with 2 women , but 2 men they'll be bothered by it. I have thought allot about this and find when we are having sex and the relationship is on a high it doesn't bother me at all but when we are in a low I feel jealous if anyone speaks to her in a flirtatious way weird huh
2006-10-21 09:11:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's the male ego, my dear.
Some men spend their whole lives comparing everything they own to other guys, they compare their johnsons, their cars, their homes, their jobs/income, their wives/gfs, etc. etc.
So the thought of some other guy doing it better or having a bigger johnson, sends them into a tizzy fit.
Girls, on the other hand, are there to be used and they don't have anything the man can compare themselves too so they are not considered competition.
2006-10-21 08:05:25 · answer #4 · answered by Gem 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I"m a man and I have no problem with her having sex with another guy or anyone if she wants to,in fact I like her to, and she stays with me , some might think its wrong or sick but we never cheat ( or sneek behind the others back) like some do but like to lye about it. have for 22 years
2006-10-21 08:19:49 · answer #5 · answered by a1_friend64 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, i think that lesbians are awesome, and i wouldnt have any problem having sex with one and mi girlfriend (i dont have a wife...too young) but its kinda nasty 4 a guy to have sex with a guy....even if its in a 3some. unless the wife is like a hardcore lesbo (as in like......fisting, animal sex, other porno lesbian stuff) i dont think shes going anywhere.
2006-10-21 08:12:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With spouse, men become possessive. They want them to be virtuous even though they may absolutely opposite, debauch.
2006-10-21 08:05:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You see he feel that he will have to compete with this other guy for his wife or u might prefer this guy to him.....
You're his and the only person who shall see u naked is him or in this case him and other naked women.....
2006-10-21 11:35:44 · answer #8 · answered by tutsie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's worry if you ask me ,,, say you moan better with him ,,he'll know you like it better from him and you'll wnat more sex from him than your own husband ,, and that will lead to you ending up leaveing your marriage to be with other man . so it's fear ,,fear you'll him for other man .
2006-10-21 09:16:33 · answer #9 · answered by Rooster 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋