it started of some while ago when i started to feel attracted to this girl.v used to chat n she knew my intentions which were never spoken.i asked her out 4 marriage to which she asked 4 some time.after 15 minutes she gave me a reply sayin that she doesnt like me.this feeling of being rejected hurts me a lot.i feel like cutting myself off.dont wana talk 2 any1.i juz wana end up my life.no expectations left from any1.although she is still in touch wid me an unaware abt these feelings of mine.i have gone an insomiac.i cant live without her.i wish there was a way to develop feelings in someone's heart for urself.how can any1 be so cruel?
now i wanna b cruel to myself.
2006-10-21 00:56:14 · 38 answers · asked by nick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know the pain you are feeling is awful, and feels like it will never end - but it will.
I've been where you are, when you feel like giving up, but please don't do anything. You owe it to yourself to think this through calmly and rationally - don't rush this descision.
When I was suicidal recently, I asked a question on here. Have a look below at the answers, they helped me when I was on the edge. You have to think how this would effect other people - it would break so many peoples hearts.
I know you are in love with this girl - but you want to wait until you find someone who loves you as much as you love them - otherwise the marriage won't be happy.
If you want to talk to someone who has been through this and come out the otherside, please get in touch with me.
Thinking of you.
2006-10-21 00:58:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
1. Humor/Personality: the ability to take a joke and be the joke every once in a while 2. Narrow/Closed Mindness, not being open to new ideas or thoughts is really annoying! 3. I'll know when I meet him ;) 4. lol I'm pretty complicated 5. There was sort of a wedge put between me and my friend, I liked a guy and she hooked up with him. We've all moved on and we're all really good friends now though. 6. There are a couple of celebs that I like...... Jamie Curtis....Ryan Reynolds......Johnny Depp......Sarah Jessica Parker.....there are a few others..... 7. I'm sort of stuck in the middle here, I'm really not that big of flirt but I don't get in that serious of relationships either. 8. 4, older teenager (none of them have lasted over a month though so I'm not sure if they really count) 9. I think that it's something you should always be responsible about and not meant for middle schoolers. 10. I hate prejudice Thanks for the points!
2016-05-22 07:22:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard i know but you will move on from this experience.
I think and only can advice that time is a great healer.
I am in love with my ex but as the time is going by i am finding it a lot easier to cope with.
I am not in contact with my ex and i do believe that is the best thing because i think that if i was still in contact with him, it would make it a lot harder for me to carry on with the rest of my life and it would also make it harder to get over him.
Maybe it would be a good idea if you stop having contact with this girl and than maybe it would be easier for you to move on too.
Maybe you should try talking to someone and possibly it may be a good idea for you to not be alone at the mo, surround yourself with your friends and family.
They are your friends and family and they will want to support you at this time.
Please don't end your life over this girl as your life is so much worth more than that and in time you will meet someone and settle and more to the point be happy, I just don't believe that you have met the right one yet
good luck and hold your head high and you will get over this x
2006-10-21 01:54:24 · answer #3 · answered by blondegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to kill yourself because some girl doesn't like you?! I'm sorry but that is about the worst excusse I have ever heard. We have all been there. There are millions of women out there and trust me there are ones that are BETTER then her. You need to go out with your friend and just start talkin to the ladies forget about this other girl and have a good time. If you do this...in a month you will forget how much you liked this girl and you will realize how dumb the idea was to kill yourself. Hell leave this sight and get into a singles sight and just start chattin. Good luck
2006-10-21 01:13:58 · answer #4 · answered by mnm4213 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"...she knew my intentions which were never spoken..."
Really, is she a mind reader? How do you know what she knows?
"...although she is still in touch wid me an unaware abt these feelings of mine." You already said you asked her out for marriage, so apparently she is aware of your feelings.
Could it be you caught her totally off guard? Tried to push her too fast? You can live without her because believe me, you would never be happy with someone who didn't share the same feelings. You can't force someone to love you, why would you even want to? Love that isn't given freely isn't love, its abuse, and it sounds like you need counselling from a real live person.
2006-10-21 01:08:15 · answer #5 · answered by prismcat38 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately some things are just not meant to be now matter how you feel about it and its very hard to understand it, you must not get sooooo down about it, it does not mean that you are completely unattractive to anyone its just that she does not feel the same as you, she has done the right thing it would have been wrong to give you the wrong idea and lead you down the wrong path and then tell you. **** just happens to everybody, some big some small but it happens, we just have to get ourselves together and try and carry on, you will find somebody of course you will, as I do believe there is someone for everyone, please try to be happy and enjoy your life as it is toooooo short as it is. Good luck in ALL you do in your life and take care of it, we are all special. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
2006-10-21 01:39:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me share with you a method that works in being able to deal with the situation.
Visualize in your mind, that the person you were so madly in love with, and the one you cared so much about, and would do anything in the world for. . . . . . . just one day she died.
Imagine that you were very hurt, and cry and let it all come out . . . . . . . and then imagine attending a funeral for her and show all your respect, and put her to rest.
You are now free to understand that you still have a strong love for your woman, but she does not exist anymore, because you put her to rest, along with all your unbearable torment, and you took a deep breath, stood tall, and went forward with your life and lived happily ever after, and one day meeting the girl you were destined to be with.
Just think, if you end it all now, you will never have the opportunity of meeting that special someone that is out there for you . . . . . waiting for you to find her.
Darryl S.
2006-10-21 01:25:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is one of the most stupid questions I have ever seen. What do you mean you want to end your life. Dude, life is precious. Children are in hospitals fighting cancer to survive and your talking about life ending because some one will not give you attention. Grow up. Jeez. No wonder with your "WIMPY" attitude she doesn't want to have anything to do with you. Quit being such a "WUSSY" and kick your gonads into gear and be a man and the girl just might change her mind.
What an idiot.
Sarge
2006-10-21 01:14:55 · answer #8 · answered by 3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She isn't being cruel. She just doesn't want to marry you.
You need to calm down and take a good hard look at yourself and ask yourself why you feel so angry!
You can't make someone want you. You can learn to be happy in yourself and in time you'll find someone who does like you.
Remember - your not a child. Stand on your own two feet before you look for someone else. It sounds to me like you are unhappy and you are using this to push the blame onto a situation/or someone else other than yourself.
2006-10-21 01:09:51 · answer #9 · answered by phoenix26ashes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen u dont have to watch her smash ur heart and make u eat it and poisen u. Be a real man and show anyone that u can survive..and u re strong u re a man commiting suicide is for weak......u can withdraw from dating for a lil time but this has to be done with the honor. Just lay on your bed and try to ease ur pain.....keep telling u that why i am suffering for her? She should be the one who has to suffer because she rejected me...u the one precious ok? not her......and try to be with ur friends go out......do sth that will make ur mind keep busy i know its never easy but god has given us a very important thing..."the abilty of forgetting"......with time...ok it wont be to quick but things will be ok.....there is still hope nick.....its not over until the fat lady sings...im sure that there is someone out there for u waiting..if u do sth stupid...what will happen her_? she will lose the only one for her..so u do.....u dont want to miss that chance right?
2006-10-21 01:42:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋