Okay, there is this girl who lives in my neighborhood who can't stop doing stupid things to me. First she put gum in my hair while we were on the bus (I was sitting in front of her). Luckilly it was on the way home from school, and it came out pretty easy (not that easy though). Ever since then I have tried to avoid sitting directly in front of her. Then yesterday on the way to school, she had sone of those ice breakers mints with the liquid indide them. So she puts a few in her mouth and spits them out at me!!! So I smelled like cinnemon for the rest of the day!!! What can I do? I cant hit her. Does she like me (That what my mom said, but I don't know if I should believe her or not)? Please help!!
2006-10-21 00:22:44 · 13 answers · asked by AndyMan 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Whenever I bring up the "Do you like me?" subject with her, she says that she doesn't and even if she did, I wouldn't like her because im gay. Im not gay though. This gets all the other kids on the bus going, and its like going through hell.
2006-10-21 00:42:45 · update #1
I once knew a girl who professed her love for me by hitting me in the side of the face with a shoe while riding by on a bike. We were both 12. Girls at that age have a funny way of showing affection.
2006-10-21 02:51:57 · answer #1 · answered by stevis78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st, she seems to be bullying you! This has got to stop.
bulling includes:People calling you names
Making things up to get you into trouble
Hitting, pinching, biting, pushing and shoving
Taking things away from you
Damaging your belongings
Stealing your money
Taking your friends away from you
Spreading rumours
Threats and intimidation
Making silent or abusive phone calls
Sending you offensive phone texts
Posting insulting messages on the internet or by IM
Bullies can also frighten you so that you don't want to go to school, so that you pretend to be ill to avoid them.
type bully into google there are a number of good websites (ive just checked)
try to come home with a friend, perhaps do a self defence class.
Next time she does it really embarress her, just stand up and say some thing like " its ovbious that you fancy me, because you seem to be doing anything you can to be near me, you know its very childish behaviour" or you could say "you must feel really Low about yourself to want to make some one else feel the same"
that should give her a shock because bullies can only exsiste if they feel they can impact on you! next time she spits at you ask her is she not about to eat properly? tell her its a discusting habbit and she says a lot more about her self doing it than she dose about you! good luck!
Also tell a teacher and keep a diary of everything that happens.
Tell your mum that even if it is a crush that this behaviour is upsetting you and that you want it to stop!
2006-10-21 08:08:29 · answer #2 · answered by jessica_mornington 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spitting is a strange way to show someone that you like them. Spitting is a vile, disgusting habit and the trick with them gum is just as bad. Avoid this girl completely, she's trouble. And for god's sake, don't give her the idea that you like her, next thing you know she'll put your cat in the blender.
2006-10-21 07:30:53 · answer #3 · answered by canucklehead1951 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her, first, to stop. Then you are going to have to bring in a teacher or something to talk to her. Try talking to her yourself, in private, if you put her in an embarrassing position she may get defensive. Of course, don't ask her if she is doing these things because she likes you. Ask her if you have done anything to offend her. If not, why are you being mean to me? If she is defensive and doesn't agree to stop, then you will have to tell the bus driver or someone in authority.
2006-10-21 07:28:23 · answer #4 · answered by jennifer c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U 've got 2 options: 1. Tell her to back off especially if u don't like it.
2. If she "likes" u?? God! That's not the way we treat the people we like!! But if u think that she does that because she "likes" u, again talk to her, and c she what she is up to because our responses will be just gueses and could be wrong! Gd luck.
2006-10-21 07:31:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time you see this girl tell her that if she likes you, there is a better way for to express her feelings for you. If she likes you, she will probably get embarrassed and leave you alone, if she has a crush on you it will become very obvious. Good luck. :)
2006-10-21 07:27:38 · answer #6 · answered by Kerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she likes you but she is being inmature about it.
Ignore her, but that's easier said than done.
Write her a letter stating your grievances, and asking her to stop before you take the necessary steps needed to make her stop... mail it to her certified mail where she has to sign for it, so you KNOW she got it, and keep a copy of that letter for yourself. If she stops, great, but if she doesn't then you can tell who you need to tell, and get her to stop, and say "hey, I warned you" and have proof that you did warn her. But when you write the letter, don't be a jerk with it, maybe have your mom proof read it first.
The letter idea sounds like a long process but it's covering your butt in case she gets stupid and tries to pull off some legal BS.
2006-10-21 07:28:12 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Really confront her. Ask her straight out if she likes you or not. If she doesn't like you tell her to stay away. Be up-front and open. It works a lot.
2006-10-21 07:26:14 · answer #8 · answered by foogill 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Attack her at corner place and show your strongness then she might have understand what you are? tell her frankaly that if she will do such thing infuture you are going to attack on her. Kiss her you will comes to know the truth
2006-10-21 07:47:41 · answer #9 · answered by sanjay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Mom is right. She likes you and is trying to get you to notice her.
Learn a very important lesson in life now:
When a woman tells you something, . . . . . . .LISTEN . . . . . . .!
Your Mom knows what she is talking about.
2006-10-21 07:27:43 · answer #10 · answered by Stingray 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋